I've gave it her up "trap two" does that make me an up hill gardener i am so confused cause i want to see him / her again
2006-09-11 08:51:28 · 46 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Fantastic a girlfriend who can service my car and catch spiders for me
2006-09-11 21:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by sister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have cared about the person very much, or you would not have been with them. You liked this person for who they were, and now that you find out they were once another gender you push them away. If this person was a male and had a sex change to become a female that means this person was already a female so to speak. If you felt like a male trapped in a woman's body or a woman trapped in a males body wouldn't you do some thing about it if you could? I believe you would. You need to step back and ask yourself how much this person means to you, and is it worth it to rip their heart out because your homophobic. How did you feel about this person before you found out? That's what matters.
2006-09-11 08:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he has had the full sex change operation, changed her name and such, then she is legally a she. This make you a man in love with a woman. I know this is hard for you to accept and understand. however be the bigger person here, not like the rest of the morans that would dump her and complain about the situation. She here again, enjoy here company and let it go where you want it to go. Don't let what you see in her now, be crushed under a past that probably was a mistake of nature.
2006-09-11 09:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No doubt you are confused! This is going to take a lot of thought. It's going to be hard work, it not only affects you and your friend. Do you have a close relationship with your family? I hope you are in a big city[ small towns can be catty] WOW What have you got your self into this time? Best of luck I hope it works out for you!
2006-09-11 09:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I know exactly what I would do! I will hugg her and say, now we are going to be only firends, dear, cuz I dont fall for women...
But if I were you I would have baught the lady a drink and really would not worry about her confession! It is actually quite brave and honest of her! People are rarely like this!
Just think of it! She knows everything about male anatomy! Isn't it exciting!?
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2006-09-12 02:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Randy Beaman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw what everyone else thinks. If you like her, then see her. It's not like she's still partially a man. If she's undergone the gender-reassignment surgery, then she's a woman as far as anyone is concerned. The only thing about her is she can't have children and her DNA has a Y chromosome. If those things bug you then you are a very shallow person.
2006-09-11 10:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really liked her company where is the problem. Seems to me she was honest about it to you. On the other hand it might be best for her if you stayed away since you are unsure enough to ask the nation what you should do. It would be most unfair of you to string her along if you don't intend to stay.
Whatever you do, do not hurt her. Be a gentleman.
2006-09-11 09:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Learner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not even go there again if she /he couldnt be honest with you in the first place then what hope have you got and by the way mate your not a up hill gardener its not your fault you didnt know
2006-09-11 09:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by kylus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest i would leg it.
But if you have feelings for this person it may be hard to ignore it. So this is up-to-you if you want to carry on with the realtionship. If you do, maybe taking precautions to avoid HIV and aids. You also must be prepared for people to poke fun if they know. Some people are ok with it, others aint. You will discover who your true friends are.
2006-09-11 09:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be absolutely fuming if it was me. I believe relationships are built on trust and surely that is quite a major thing. I also wouldn't be able to handle the fact that she used to be a man, so I would finish the relationship instantly.
If you really like her and you can handle that she used to be a man, then stick with it and tell her that she should be honest with you in future.
2006-09-11 08:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋