I found out through a friend that he had been going to the strip club... And I found out he was spending between 1,000 & 1,800 a month there.
He never told me and always lied about going when I asked, but when his friend told me he was busted and swore never to go again.
I just found a bank statement with an ATM withdrawl from the address of the strip club.
Not only did he lie, he went on the day our 1 year old son had open heart surgery.
He wasn't at the hospital "because he had to work."
Our son couldv'e died on that operating table, and I was at the hospital alone, crying by myself.
How do I confront this sorry SOB?
2006-09-11 08:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Girl what you need to be doing is planning his funeral. All that money at the strip club when you have a sick baby at hospital? Maybe you should be looking for a place to bury the body instead.
2006-09-11 08:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and do it quickly. If he is truly sorry, he will agree to seek help. If he does not want the help, break it down to him. he cannot have his cake and eat it too.
If at all possible it can work out, you will have a stronger relationship in the long run. But if he just doesn't seem to care, you may need to move on. Sorry, but that is not fair to you or the son. Looking is one thing, but lying about it and squandering your money is another.
2006-09-11 15:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Barefoot Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can confront him by hooking up with someone who will love and respect you and your baby. You just made a mistake marrying this worthless SOB, correct the mistake and get a happy life. Divorce can be a really good thing. Good luck.
2006-09-11 16:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the strip club thing isn't bad only if you go here and there ,and you don't spend crazy money there, 1,000 to 1,800 is soooo crazy tell your man you'll strip for him for that much money ...lol
ok now what kind of a father/ husband would not be there for their son and wife at a life or death situation, i can't believe it !!! it goes to show he doesn't care for or your son, tell him he needs to go !!!!
2006-09-11 15:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by dechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - I certainly hope you have divorced this SOB - what a low life. He needs to be kicked out NOW!!! Send him packing. You and your family will be MUCH better off without him. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
2006-09-11 15:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't usually advise this, but... divorce papers. If he went while your son was on the operating table, and you have proof, it's probably time for a divorce.
2006-09-11 15:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the third person who answered
2006-09-11 17:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥QT♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks & leave his stuff outside; he should get the message loud & clear then. start divorce proceedings soon afterward, nuf said. hope ur baby gets better soon.
2006-09-11 15:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just effing tell the sob how you feel. don't hold back 'cause he sure don't care about anyone but himself.
2006-09-11 15:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick the bastard to the curb, the man has no heart!!!! :(
2006-09-11 15:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Cait 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋