ok see here is the thing i have had a crazy crush on this guy and i really like him but i am afarid he dosen't like me and i don't really want to go up to him should i have on of my friends go up to him and ask him if he likes me? He and i went out last year for over 2 months but that dosen't exactly matter and he keeps on talking to me and he actaully talks to me like my friends do but i am afarid if i ask him if he likes me he will stop talking to me. And here is the thing he invited me over for a paintball gun match with his friends and i want to go but i can't get my paintball gun because it is up north and i am afarid that he is goin to not belive that i have a paint ball gun but i do and i really want to go over and he is about to have his birthday and his cousin keeps on saying that he wants to have a birthday party but hes not sure yet and if he does than he wants to invite me but i am not sure if that is true PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME should i have someone go up to him and ask?
2006-09-11 08:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow honey. Were you breathing when you wrote any of that? Or was the mind just racing? Either way, you need to calm down. You are making this into a bigger problem than it really needs to be. If you want to know but are afraid to ask, have one of your mutual friends call and ask him if he likes you. Then you'll know what to do. Sitting here wondering isn't going to give you the answers you are looking for.
2006-09-11 08:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only read the first part but I got the jest of it-You like some dude.
Well, don't have your friends talk to him. That's just lame. If you've got the "balls", talk to him yourself. But do so in a way that is light, not all psycho "Fatal Attraction" like you're coming off now. Just kidding. But go easy so things won't be wierd if he says no.
2006-09-11 08:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all menas go and enjoy yourself as a friend. If he wanted to be with you you guys would have stayed together or he would have said something by now. I wouldn't put anything right now into a relationship besides it being a good friendship. Have fun, rent or buy another paint gun and then enjoy your newly found friend.
2006-09-11 08:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him yourself! You may be hesitant at first, but you will feel completely better afterwards. Regardless of his response, you'll at least have an answer. Go ahead, take the risk, rather than regretting it later. Good luck!
2006-09-11 08:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up and ask him not one of your friend or else he my think that you are a wimp or something if he says no i only want to be frends pretend your not sad.say"OK i thought you like me in a another way but you don't so i am going to be cool with that at least we are friends"OK
hope it works,
Kimberly P
2006-09-11 08:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by lovable kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would, you're probably the shy type right I was like that to when I was younger. Unless you feel you can go up to him, if you care for him treat him good. You never know you might end up with him.
2006-09-11 08:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Gina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 12?
2006-09-11 08:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should go get that paintball gun from up north. i dont see any relevance to the situation? but if it makes you feel better, you go get your paintball gun!!
how old are you?
2006-09-11 08:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask him. it shouldn't be that difficult. especially if you dated last year - you shouldn't be that scared to talk to him.
I am sure you can rent a paintball gun.
2006-09-11 08:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him with confidence and say hey i got a question for you do you like me? his answer should give you some sort of indication of what to do next
2006-09-11 08:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋