wants to make your life miserable.I just started my new job today and I've already made an enemy,or so it seems.One of the co-workers who trianed me introduced me to the other employees...and this one Girl in her late 20's maybe acts as though she has a chip on her shoulder.GOD I hate situations like this.I haven't dont a thing to her and I don't her a** a damn thing.It's just annoying she act like I'm so scared of her,and all along i'm thinking she's a dang fool!
What should I do,other than ignore???
2006-09-11 08:28:09 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't owe her a** a damn thing.
2006-09-11 08:29:42 · update #1
Waynes angel do me a favor and shut the hell up,you ignorant ho.Thank you.
2006-09-11 08:32:51 · update #2
For all you who think I'm probably stuck up...I'm actually a calm and quiet person...very laid back i do not bother others unless they are bothering me.And that the turth.
2006-09-11 08:39:40 · update #3
It sounds like she may either be jealous or insecure about you being new and starting work there, i had a right load of bitches on my first day of work and i just done my job and ignored them b/c i thought well you're the ones with the problem and i personally don't give a flying f*ck what you think of me. If it annoys you so much then i would confront her and ask her what the problem is b/c you have to work with her and if she has a problem she might as well tell you what it is. Actually i would confront her as she does sound like a b*tch. I hope your job works out for you, if not then find a better job with ppl who will treat you with some respect,it's their loss at the end of the day!
2006-09-11 09:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, it actually depends on your age and what position this woman has. If she is a head manager of where you work, and has to take the flack for all that goes wrong, she is going to probably be hard nosed and very "b*tchy" to ensure things go right and her butt will not be on the line.
As for the age issue-- if she is older than you, then there is a good chance that she has had more experiences in life that has caused her to be very strict when it comes to her work habits-- that means if someone tries to joke, she will become offended and report them. You do not know what experiences she brings to the table.
What you should do, is very simple... Do your job, let her do her job and keep it at that. If there are harsh words exchanged, document it and report it, but you are there to do a job, not win a popularity contest or make friends. A job, is a job.
I apologize if that sounds harsh, but that is the reality of work. If you happen to hit it off with some of your co-workers and become friends, that is absolutely great, but at the end of the day, the bottom line is it is a job. It is work. It is not meant to be exciting, or friendly, it is meant to be work-- and it is apparent this woman in her late 20's sees it as just that-- nothing more than a job that she is there to do.
Good luck to you, though, as it can be brutal to be put in that situation, and until you can find a better paying job, you will be forced to stick it out and learn to just give her the space she wants.
2006-09-11 08:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by AnAvidViewer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you even sat down a talked with her? Maybe she has some problems that she is having trouble dealing with. You wouldn't know this unless you got to know her, she might be a really nice person. But instead, you chose to assume the worst of her.
I call that prejudice. I think you should get to know her first. I don't know you, but judging by what you wrote about a person that you had just met, I'd have to assume that you have quite a chip on your shoulder, too.
2006-09-11 10:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by rallsjc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, distinctive human beings will continuously stereotype you for some thing you're or no longer. that's basically the merciless actuality of existence, and in case you do no longer view your self that way then there's no ought to furnish your self a headache approximately it. besides there'll continuously be some gem stones obtainable that isn't see you as a stereotype yet a individual, so basically be you and each thing else will fall into place.
2016-12-18 08:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by menjivar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're driving a car and all day long it seems like people are trying to run into you, you gotta stop and think that maybe *you're* the bad driver, not everyone else. If there is *always* an ugly miserable b*tch, perhaps *you're* the problem. Always look in the mirror before you go blaming others for *your* issues.
2006-09-11 08:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks, but theres no need to get mad about it. There are going to be people like that everywhere you go, and they get off on seeing you cringe.
You are the one that makes the decision to have a good day or not, not her. So the next time you feel like wringing her neck, just smile at her, and think about how much it must suck to be her since she's so damn pissy all the time!
2006-09-11 08:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by cynthetiq 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool until you can identify the real leaders in the group that can help you in training and orientation. Pray for this lady as she is a little bitter in life and about new people that may prove to work harder than she does.
You have time and energy to your advantage, that beats an experienced moaner.
2006-09-11 08:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may have been having a bad day. She just may give off the vibe without meaning to. There could be alot of reasons for her actions. Just deal with her in a civil professional way. She may have gotten a vibe off of you that she didn't like. You may want to sit her down and ask her politly and quitely what her problem is. ;)
2006-09-11 08:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few weeks and if she's still like this,ask her straight out what he problem is.If you get friendly with another co-worker before then,ask them if they know what's going on. I worked with someone like this for months.I was in my teens and she was 50 and my new supervisor.She gave me all the worst jobs,which I rebelled against.Made things worse,so I changed tactics and tried being nicer to her. We ended up becoming great friends.Good luck
2006-09-11 08:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that there is a lesson to be learned here.
You are being tested by life.
This situation will appear over and over again until you truly learn.
Your happiness is not reliant upon others.
You should not let others affect your mental state.
Ignoring her is the solution...but she still affects your state.
To actually ignore the biatch and not let it affect you at all is the trick.
Do not say anything or think anything bad about her.
2006-09-11 08:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Matty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋