am i gay or a transexual (help please)?
hey i dont know if im gay or a transexula i like guys and all but i also want to be a girl i dress up as a women all the time and my parents are okay with it what should i do please help
2006-09-11 08:23:47 · 16 answers · asked by greenrainbowqueer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you are transexual and gay. look for other people or groups like you for support good luck too
2006-09-11 08:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both, I know plenty of transexual & gay guys like you. And most likely if a guy like to dress up as a girl then he's gay.
2006-09-11 11:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by lovlouis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a gender nonconformity. You also chose to be gay, and if you can not remember when as a child you made this choice, it is a different issue than gender nonconformity.
Sounds like we are similar, I was a girl that wanted to be a boy. My gender nonconformity was first, before ever having an attraction formed. I was undiagnosed, and as i role played a girl kissed me. Me having a gender nonconformity, undiagnosed and untreated and unknown to me or my parents, this helped me decide after forming an attraction to a girl it was a natural course for me. Thought I was born gay. Things may have been different if I would have got treatment for gender nonconformity before I had formed an attraction to the same gender at 4 years old. Over the next few years the homosexual idea became bigger to me than gender nonconformity, you could say they blended together in my mind, making me believe I was born gay, and i should have been born a male. Then as I grew I forgot the incident that happened at 4 and me forming an attraction on the same gender, and forgot it was a choice I made, you could not tell me I was not born gay.
As you can see now gender nonconformity and homosexual are two separate issues. It is true often children with hormone influenced gender nonconformity along with forming an attraction on same gender often seek sexual reassignment surgery later in life, after treatment in later years. This is a trans sexual, a person that has had a sexual reassignment surgery. Trans gender is the stage they live in before the sexual reassignment surgery. There are some people though that are trans gender and do not get the surgery, because trans gender means a person is living as the opposite gender they are born.
They would like to say that more than certain a child that has gender nonconformity is likely to become gay. This is sad, because it is separate ISSUES BUT OFTEN SEEN AS same thing, causing some children to form a sexual attraction on same gender, or causing another same gender child to become sexually attracted to the one with gender nonconformity,that could be of same gender.
It is all a mess, and it all should be treated as a mental issue. I know some children have learned characteristics that cause them to have a gender nonconformity, and often they will grow out of the gender nonconformity. Often though these children may be influenced to form attractions on same gender. Any child can for an attraction to the same gender.
2006-09-11 10:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress out about this so much.. sexuality is a very complex thing try not to label yourself just go with how youre feeling and eventualy you will understand. ask your parents (if they are ok with this) if you can go to a support group where you can tal;k to people that have been through the same emothions you are going through...
2006-09-12 04:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is transexual but the name really doesn't matter, you are you, labels are not important.
2006-09-11 09:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a crossdresser and gay! Its normal their are many people like you out there and you could marry or love one of them! I hope I helped you!
2006-09-11 09:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Keys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know i dont believe in labels that much but to my understanding you are transexual.
2006-09-11 09:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by jopuppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off thats good that your parents take you for who you is, and just be you no matter what you think you is if GOD wanted you to only like girls then thats it if not then live with it.
2006-09-11 08:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can confirm that part (gay or transsexual). Well, if you are very comfortable with your own skin then so be it, do what your heart tells you to do.
I am proud of you.
2006-09-11 10:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by tangerine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist. They might be able to sort it through with you.
2006-09-11 09:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋