hey i dont know if im gay or a transexula i like guys and all but i also want to be a girl i dress up as a women all the time and my parents are okay with it what should i do please help
2006-09-11 08:22:30 · 21 answers · asked by greenrainbowqueer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't have to be gay, to enjoy women's clothes.
2006-09-11 08:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though you're a straight woman in a man's body; there's no easy fix, but check for a nearbly GLBT center you can visit and look for a transexual support group...your situation may not be common to everyone reading this, but there are definitely others who've gone through the same issues and who's experience and ideas might help you sort things out. Education is a big key here...and don't shy away from thinking about why you're feeling this stuff. If you are a female, you're looking at significant medical procedures and a lot of stuff to work out. I wish you the best with it though!
2006-09-11 15:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gamerbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi greenrainbow. Wow, it sounds like you have made some important discoveries about yourself, and some important things left to be discovered. I think that's great. First, I admire you for your the positive way you have approached what you choose to wear. Just please be careful because not all people are kind. I bet you look lovely. As for your sexual orientation I would encourage you to be patient. Lots of guys like to dress like females, both straight and gay. Stay close to good people you trust for support. Don't feel you have to make any decisions you aren't ready to make. Be a gentle loving person and I am sure it will all work out.
2006-09-11 15:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both. I have met alot of "dragqueens" and they are gay and love it. If you are going to dress up like a women then go and get make-up advice from someone who is in the same boat. There is nothing wrong with being gay or a dragqueen. They are some of the most wonderful people in the world. Be true to yourself and love you for you. Good Luck.
2006-09-11 15:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Transexuals are men who cut off their manhood...if you konw what I mean...and grow chest.
YOu sound like a gay man who love to dress up like a women. Dont sweat it buddy there are a lot of your types out there!
Peace & Love
2006-09-11 15:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by papastar2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand terms for sexuality
gay is a person who only likes people of the same sex
eg, you like guys, and you are a guy,, then you are gay
but if you also feel like a woman trapped into a man's body and you are phisically a man, then you are transexual
2006-09-11 15:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by mr_cake_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something you have to figure out for yourself. Nobody can help you make a decision of such magnitude.
You may want to consult an organization or group with the same issue for guidance.
2006-09-11 15:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by phrensied 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you have sex with men? cause if you do your pretty gay there fella....... i don't know why your hung up on labels ..gay or transexual?!? what is the real difference? i think if you dress up like woman on purposes cuz you get yer jollies.. you are definetely a little gay. think about it...if you dress up like a woman it means deep inside you wish you where a woman so deep inside you wish you could get nailed like a woman. and if your a man having sex with a man dressed up like a woman ... your both gay.
2006-09-11 15:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there many verierties of trangender people who only dress up from time to time crossdresses tranvestites
people that beleave they are in the wrong body but can cope with how they are and people that can stand being there birth sex there are many test on line that help work out
what you are
try this one
http://transsexual.org/TEST0.html
its called the COGIATI test if this lin dos't work
2006-09-11 15:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand the need to identify yourself. to be able to feel like you're not on the fringe, that your not alone ect. Go with your feelings, that will lead you to your identity. it's not necessary to have a label or start out with a label. if it helps, take one, it can always change as you learn who you are. just give yourself the freedom to do that.
2006-09-11 15:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy's guitar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to put a lable on yourself!!!! it sounds like you are you and you should be happy with yourself just the way you are....... Good luck finding out what you think you should call yourself !!!!!
I think you are a person that likes to be a woman but you are a person first and that is all that matters!!!!!!
JUST BE YOUR SELF!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 15:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋