Are there clothes I could wear and/or things I could do to meet other people like myself? Without running around screaming, I'm Gay! LoL
2006-09-11 08:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I will agree that a rainbow sticker or wearable will make it a bit easier for other lesbians to see that you are. But in truth, just wear what you've always like to wear and be yourself. If you like makeup then use it, if not then avoid it. A lot of people could not tell I was a butchy type of lesbian because of My long hair (had it long all My life), and yet after I cut it short it seems now they can't seem to figure out if I'm a girl or a boy LOL. That though was My choice...Decide what's yours and stick to it!
Best of Luck!
2006-09-11 10:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Clais 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A little rainbow gear never hurt anybody if you think people cannot tell if you're a lesbian, bi, or straight. It's really the only way without the "support gay marriage" sticker on your car. We "gay" people look and act like everybody else, so there is no sure way to tell, without asking, and no sure way to be known, without telling. If you have a look or style, aka look at a girl as she passes, then you could do that.
2006-09-11 09:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look if you are a lesbian and you want to meet others then try going to a gay bar or an club where you can meet other woman ...... then just be your self and stop trying to be something that every one wants you to be........
Good Luck
2006-09-11 08:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
pierce your lip...that's what i did. i'm just kidding. by wearing clothes or doing things that gay people "do" you would just be reinforcing the stereotype that there is a stereotype out there for the glbtq community. just be yourself. if others think you're gay, well then that's their problem, not yours.
2006-09-11 08:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by utxicana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to look OBVIOUSLY gay, then don't try to. As far as I know, the only obviously lesbian thing you could do is to shave your head, discard ALL make-up you have in the house, let yourself go, and wear flannel shirts and burkenstocks. But if you want to look like a lipstick lesbian, just look as straight as concievably possible.
2006-09-11 08:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You need to go rainbow shopping! Get a rainbow necklace, earrings, bracelet, or broach.
2006-09-11 09:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, it will come natural, go with the flow and if shes special she will know...good luck!
2006-09-11 08:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Vanity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply wear a shirt that says "yes i eat p*ssy,next question." That would pretty much do it.
2006-09-11 08:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Theadore K 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Catch their eye. Simple as that.
2006-09-11 08:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the shirt answer .................that about sums it up pretty good.
2006-09-11 08:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋