have been with my boyfriend over a year and a half now. We get on very well but im worried bout his cousin. Anytime we go out together i feel uncomfortable with him coz his cousin tends to flirt a lot when hes drunk.I dont no weather its coz hes generally a nice fela r if its becoz he likes me. I can see that my boyfriend can see the way he gets on around me.When his cousin is sober he can talk to me but acts normal around me.Im affraid that becoz this is worrying me it could be that i might have fellings for him.I love my boyfriend but becoz i think of his cousin as a really nice guy i still would like to find out if he fancies me without having to ask him encase this rewins r relationship and the relationship i have with my boyfriend.He doesnt txt me vry often but when he does he always says how much he would like a girlfriend but never has confidence with them. I just dont no wer i stand wit him and cant help noing whats goin on in his head! Please give me good advice! xx
2006-09-11 08:10:01 · 6 answers · asked by madchicno_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe he does like u. but u would really upset ur bf if u went with his cuz
2006-09-11 09:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by AmericanWoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust yourself that's why you are afraid you might develop a feeling for him. Probably he does have a feeling for you but because you are already going out with his cousin, he doesn't know how to go ahead with you. Usually, when a person in drunk, he speaks the truth! He speaks whatever is in heart. But as far as you are concerned, you should ask yourself what is more important to you. What will make you happier, being with your boyfriend or being with his cousin. In any case, I believe you should talk about this with your bf. You should tell him about the behaviour of his cousin and about your feeling for him(cousin), whether you like him or not. Bear in mind not to give anyone false hope, nor to betray anyone's trust. To do that you should be always frank and you should never hide your feelings. Never keep anything in your heart. Whatever there is, you should bring it out. That's the secret to be happy, and believe me, it works!
Take care!
2006-09-11 09:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty tickles my fancy. enable's see.......feathers, ice cubes, silk ribbons, rubber whips....ok.....i'll make certain i'm marching into violation territory and in view that I basically were given a sparkling account by using suspension i'd be a sturdy female (if i'm no longer i'm particular i'll discover someone to spank me with a paddle!!! That tickles my fancy too) i am going to continuously enable someone know in the adventure that they have got truly "tickled" my FANCY!!!!
2016-11-26 01:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by cassone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put up the barriers, don't give him ANY sort of common, pay you BF heaps of attention when he's around and there you go - no worries.
Maybe even talk to your BF about it - though that might nbe a bit awkward - and explain what's going on and what you'er doing about it.
2006-09-11 08:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Felidae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your boyfriend, stand by him. i would talk to him about his cousin and explain how uncomfortable you feel in these situations. it seems to me that hes just out to see how far he can get as a lot of guys do after a few drinks. i wouldnt take it any further as it seems to me that hes just after a quick fling, but talk to your man and as i said, he might help you through.
2006-09-11 08:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god get a life and find somebody new never get stuck with shy people how boring
2006-09-11 08:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋