Just wondering. We are averaging one or less times a week and I was wondering if that is within normal limits, totally awful, or just life in your thirties.
2006-09-11 08:05:46 · 22 answers · asked by whereRyou? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for all your honesty--appreciate it!
2006-09-11 09:19:29 · update #1
My husband is 34 and his sex drive is higher than mine at the age of 20. We have sex once everyday, except when I have my period. Seomtimes We have it twice a day.
2006-09-11 10:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for 4 1/2 years. Together 6 1/2. We do it an average 3-4 times a week. I wish more though.
2006-09-11 08:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also in my thirties and have been with my husband 18 years. we have been married for 4 and a half and have 4 children. We on a regular basis have sex evey night. But sometimes depending on how tired from long work days we might not have sex but two times in a week. Everyone is different. Even if you don't have sex maybe you could just enjoy cuddling or other stimulation. It's amazing. Good Luck. (Try some candles and music or maybe a bubble bath together)
2006-09-11 08:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by lighthouse lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is no excuse my husband and I are also in out thirties but in all honesty we have SEX at least 7 times out of the weak. You might think I'm ex-saturating but really I'm not. We have been married for 13 years and the older we get the wiser we are. We love each other and love to express it by making love or Sex. Wednesdays are his days off so when our child is in school we sure take advantage of the 6 hrs. we have together. The other days we wait till our child is asleep and we continue to express each other out. I guess it all depends on the person, good thing I found someone who could keep up with me..
2006-09-11 08:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 10 years, are in our 30's, and have 4 kids. We have sex about 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more, and if I aint feelin it, sometimes not at all. Its different all the time. If you are fine with it, then Normal is whats normal for you.
2006-09-11 08:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're 35 & 31, and we usually average 4-5 times a week.
2006-09-11 09:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by whoamihere32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can go on somebody else's performance in the bedroom.{ or anywhere else lol}I think it depends on the sex drive of the two individuals involved! What would you like, what would he like?It's called "communicating" in a relationship and sex is very definitely a part of a relationship. Obviously if you're asking this question "you" are not happy with the situation! Good sex good communication, no sex no communication! You're asking the wrong people! Ask the one you do it with, he'll tell you!
2006-09-11 08:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do to lack of interest from the wife 3 times a month if I'm lucky, the girl friend on the side is another story...
2006-09-11 08:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Married Male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married 16 years we are in our fourties and still i cant even wash dishes without my husband being aroused . for some once a week is normal people work too much job or kids are demanding but you and hubby should set aside together time or date nights my hubby is still the sexiest thing in town and we do it every chance we get sometimes once a week sometimes seven but we always make time if its only been once a week
2006-09-11 08:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by susi98223 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well of course it depends on how much time we have given all our other responsibilities (work, kids, home maintenance, etc) but generally it is about 2 - 4 times a week on not so busy weeks and maybe 1 time a week when there is more chaos.
2006-09-11 08:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋