2006-09-11 08:00:47 · 17 answers · asked by clive e 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
because they're idiots?
2006-09-11 08:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by muggle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are hot.........
Generally they have a spark in their eyes, there is a pheromone thing going on, and at some dep level they reckon that we are bio-programmed to go for the alpha male (this being that bad men can take out the good men, then therefore are the strongest in the survival of the fittest, and thus should be first choice to reproduce with as they wil be around to provide....of course that doen't happen, but they reckon that's why)!
Like I said they are generally just hot, you can love good men, but in entirely different way, not on a basic level (which to be fair is lust) like you do wid dem bad boys......
You see a good man, you like..............
You see a bad man you undies start peeling themself off........
always been the same, and they generally always make us cry, but when they want can make you feel good
Does that answer your question?
2006-09-13 12:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to find powerful men attractive. That's a natural thing, to be expected, and morally neutral, just like men finding women with a nice hip-waist ratio attractive. It just is.
So what sorts of men are powerful? Well, bad boys have a certain power, they can intimidate people, perhaps beat them up, protect their families, etc. From what I've seen, young women tend to be most attracted to bad boys - the 'good' guys their age are powerless students are low-on-corporate ladder types, wheras the bad boys are in their prime. As they get older and the 'good' guys become successful and the bad-boys get left behind economically, the women find they aren't as interested in bad boys, because they (the women) have matured. Maturation is probably part of it, but I can't help think bad boy's fall from intimidating young punk to menial labourer while the obedient class geek is now driving a bmw and bossing his staff around might have something to do with it.
2006-09-11 15:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't its just that bit of excitement i think, you know no one is gna trouble you when your with one, you never really deep into their heart so its like a challenge to get there. The way they dress, walk and talk is sexy you jus want them too grab you and pull you in the bedroom and feel them making love to you and then most of the time us girls fall in love with them and get hurt but don't learn our lesson and go back with another bad boy lol.
2006-09-13 09:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why We Love Bad Boys
A good man is not so hard to find. I've dated a bunch of them. They call when they say they are going to call, they take you out on actual dates, they tell their friends and even their parents about you, they like their parents, they play their phone messages in front of you, they have just one glass of wine with dinner because they're driving, they have jobs, they have female friends they haven't slept with....yeah, yeah whatever. The point is, they're not hard to find. Bad boys are hard to find, because they're never where they're supposed to be. In fact, they're not supposed to be anywhere. They do as they please. They go where the wind takes them. If you're lucky, you might get a cell phone number from them. If you're lucky, you might know exactly what (or who) a bad boy is doing. It's infuriating and insensitve and intriguing and insane and oh, how we love bad boys.
You know you're dating a bad boy when you're not sure you're actually dating. Bad boys are usually one of two things: unavailable or undressed. This leaves you unable to think of anything but where the hell he is and when will he do that to me again? Bad boys are rule breakers and heartbreakers and bed shakers and oh, how we love bad boys.
A bad boy will call you "baby", probably because he forgot your name, but still, there's nothing sexier than a bad boy who's dying to see you. It doesn't matter if anything he says is true. It sounds good, it feels good because bad boys have throw down. Bad boys are not tentative about kissing. They are not tentative about anything. They know what they want, and they go for it, which is thrilling when it's you, and not so thrilling when it's suddenly the model (not) eating at the table next to yours. Of course, that rarely happens because bad boys rarely take you out. They dont have to. The bar is low for bad boys. They dont have to surprise you with flowers, it's a surprise they show up at all. In fact, a bad boy is happy to let a good guy take you to dinner, ask you about you, kiss you goodnight at the door.... a bad boy knows he can call after midnight and still get invited over for dessert.
Bad boys are dessert. They're like hot fudge sundaes. You know they're not good fo you. You know that as a woman, a certain age, you're not supposed to indulge anymore, but that doesn't mean you won't fantasize about it while you're eating your mixed berries. The other fantasy of course, is that you will somehow reform a bad boy. That you will meet one with a motorcylce and tattoos and a love of bars, and he'll tell you he's trouble but clearly that's all a front. In truth, he's just wounded, as we all are, and eventually he'll fall madly in love with you because you are what's missing in his life. The thing is, bad boys are so elusive, so aware of their options, so impossible to pin down, that when a bad boy gives you a ring, it means something. That you should hire a very old nanny. Oh, oh, oh, how we love bad boys.
--People magazine--
2006-09-11 15:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They were the ones with fire in their eyes and excitement in their hearts. Then I reached 40 and settled down with a boring but good guy.
2006-09-11 15:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by chris h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if the girls were bad, too.
2006-09-11 15:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by crowbird_52 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Magnetism.
2006-09-13 04:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that. I can't explain it either. The worst jerk I ever went for was so great in bed, that's what kept me going back.
2006-09-11 15:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all do. Only the ones who want to get in trouble, but no one likes a wimp.
2006-09-11 15:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny Dancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the type of girl. and sometimes, bad guys are just hot.:)
2006-09-11 15:04:39 · answer #11 · answered by Sophia L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋