Ladies- Would this be uncomfortable on a 1st date out of town?

Question

I'm writing a fictional story. The lady has gotten too drunk on her semi-first date. She is not a local but he is. He drives her back to his place, takes off her pants and shirt and dresses her in a comfy pair of P.J.'s that his female roomate owns. Then tucks her into his bed and he sleeps in the lazy boy in the living roof. Is this unrealistic or how would she possible handle this when she wakes up. Just need some female point of view.
Thanks

Thank you very much for all the feedback. She'll stay dressed but he will undo a button on her jeans and take her shoes off and tuck her in. Then hell crash on the lazy boy. I appreciate it. And perhaps I'll change it so shes not smashed passed out. If shes a lightweight could a couple booze get her exhausted shes just too tired to function? Thanks again

Answer 1

I would probably go with her feeling embarrassed and feeling a little guilty.

Answer 2

If the guy is gentlemanly enough to not take advantage of this situation, he would not undress her. He might take off her belt, undo a pants button, and loosen any other restrictive clothing, but he would not undress her. If he had a female roommate, SHE might change the date into PJ's. That's believable.

A woman who gets passed-out drunk on a "semi-first date," also isn't that realistic. They exist, but they are sl*ts, and their reaction to the situation would be way different than mine, so I can't say how they'd react.

If you want to stick with your story line, my immediate reaction would be, "Where am I? Who took my clothes off? Where are my clothes? What happened last night? How can I be sure?" and "Take me home NOW!" I would never want to see that guy again. I'd be much too embarrassed.

Answer 3

way unrealistic!! he could just take off her shoes & tuck her into the bed - that's a much better scenario. no woman in her right mind is going to wake up & see that her semi-date has put her in jammies without freakin completely out!! he stripped her & then dressed her while she was unconscious?! come on - too freaky for normal folks. now, the part about not gettin in bed with her is okay - that's pretty realistic. scratch the other part & get on with writing this story - I want to know how it ends!!!

Answer 4

First of all I woudn't get drunk with a guy I just met. But if I did - I would feel better if he didn't change my clothes and he let me sleep on the couch. The changing of the clothes would certainly piss me off a bit. It seems more realistic for him to put her on the couch with a blanket/pillow and NOT change the clothes. The couch is also better because if she wakes up in a strange mans bed - she'd probably freak out!

Answer 5

Yes, I think she would feel pretty embarassed to have gotten drunk with someone she hardly knows, and a little uncomfortable that he undressed her and put her to bed. She'd also appreciate that he was gentleman enough that he slept in the Lazy Boy. Once they're both awake, I think she'd feel a bit awkward when their conversation starts.

Answer 6

If you don't want her to be uncomfortable, just have him stick her in the bed without messing withthe PJs, or have the female roommate in question take care of that.

Not as sexy, but not as embarrassing.

Answer 7

I would think that was okay, but she'd have to be pretty drunk. i'm not so sure about the undressing bit. The whole thing would be a really sweet thing to do if the girl were really smashed.

Answer 8

I think he would sound more trustworthy if she was not changed out of her clothes, and her shoes taken off, and placed in the bed, then the scenario played out as you've written.