i have known this man 4 16 years and we have dated 4 5 years. we have a 1 year old and recenlty split up.?

Question

once again we have broken up. but things r so much different ya know. i love him but he doesn't have true love 4 me. am i selling my self short? this man is my heart and it will kill me if later on he falls in love wit someone else. this is my best friend....hoe do u let go 4 good ?

Answer 1

sorry to hear that but if he doesn't luv u then why push urself on him.. yes u will be selling urself short.. people grow up and grow apart, that's life.. if it's meant to be and u want to wait for him then he'll come back but u need to worry bout ur 1yr old and move on..

if he falls for someone else there is nothing u can do about it but take it for what it is and move on... he is and so should u.. dwelling on how much u care for him will not make things better only worst.. and u can still be friends for the sake of ur daughter...