Why was it the medicalstaff or just the entire situation?
2006-09-11 07:32:00 · 7 answers · asked by dreamgirl4myboy 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i had one in 2004. That was the worse thing that i could have every done. That is a choice that me and my partner made. After is was done, i was miserable for a while, depressed, cried a lot and withdrew from everyone. I decided to go and speak to someone because i felt guilty for the decision that was made, and i couldn't look myself in the mirror without crying. That is a hard decision for anyone to make, whatever the circumstances are. I vowed to myself that if i every got pregnant again, i would never do that. I will be 8 months tomorrow, and i can't wait to be a mommy. It was a hard decision to make. I use to think about the baby all the time. I was just torturing myself. I actually wrote a letter to the baby apologizing. That helped a lot. After that I felt better. I will never forget that baby, because he/she would have been my first born. I am excited to be pregnant now. I don't dwell on the mistake that i made, because it would be no good for me or anyone else. I was called all sorts of names from one doctors office that i visited. She called me selfish, and said that i was the devil. She didn't believe in abortions and tried to get me to think like she did.
2006-09-11 08:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not me, I was mentally prepared for my decision and made my choice logically. I don't reget it at all. It was right for ME as an individual with the only say in my personal matter(my guy was with me 100%)
I do feel bad for ppl that regret their choice, but then again, they may not have been in the right mind to make the decision if they are now regretting it, but there is plenty of opportunity given prior to an abortion when a women can change her mind, so it sucks when they regret it.
prochoice
2006-09-11 14:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what is siva talking about lol is she answering the wrong question? to answer yours if i were to have an abortion i know in my heart and soul i would regret if for the rest of my life, i'm that kind of person, very nurturing and motherly. i'm not ready to have kids any time soon because i'm young but even if i got preg. i'd be like ok this is it i guess i have to grow up get my **** together and be the best mom in the world!
2006-09-11 14:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't regret mine I was only 13 at the time. It was the best thing not to worry about having a baby and school and how to support it. I didn't have sex until long after wards though just in case it happened again.
2006-09-11 14:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
gave you the idea that we'd be offended? the ONLY TIME a guy would act weird to something like that is if he thought the chick was annoying or something. but even if she's only kinda hot, go for it
2006-09-11 14:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by siva1013 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never had one, but I know I wouldn't regret it if I had.
2006-09-11 14:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
anyone that would not regret there abortion is a monster.... unless it had to be done for a medical reason there is NO reason for it!!
2006-09-11 14:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi S 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋