2006-09-11 06:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guys and girls have different ideas of what is romantic... to have a guy who wants to be romantic with you, you have to have the guy first!
Once you've got your man, let him know straight out what you think is romantic: flowers, a bath together, wine with a nice dinner, going to the show/theater/movie/whatever! He can't read your mind, and every girl is different with what SHE thinks is romantic. (For example, I HATE flowers... most of them make me sneeze and they just die in a few days anyway.... so I've had to literally tell my boyfriend word-for-word "DO NOT GET ME FLOWERS").
And lastly, if your man does ANYTHING remotely romantic (even if it's something you're not really into, like if my boyfriend ACTUALLY bought me flowers after I told him I don't like them) you have GOT to praise them for it: "That is SO thoughtful" "Thank you so much" "I love this special attention you're giving me" "Aw, you're the best" comments like these will let him know that romance IS important to you and that he SHOULD incorporate more of it into your relationship.
2006-09-11 06:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by lilhottiebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...I've been married for 15 yrs! My guy was the ultimate romantic for about the first 4 to 5 years...then reality "bites" (you have a kid..you have to hunt for jobs, pay bills and so on) and...I can't explain it...the romance takes a hit. Maybe it doesn't die. Maybe you can resurrect it..if YOU REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER.
But if it's already not there...I think it never WILL be! Most people are romantic in the first few months and even years. But if they are NEVER romantic, what reason do they have to be AFTER you're married to them? I REALLY hate to say this, but, if is't romance you want...look for someone else! Sorry...
2006-09-11 14:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmm i think yeah .. he treated me right.. we are actually still going out right now ! he texts me in the morning when he wakes up and before going to sleep! we have fantastic time in bed ... and most of all he is romatic ! well i think he is ..! if u wanna know who is right for u then start dating ppl .. thier is bound to be having one for u ! good luck swetty
2006-09-11 13:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by sandras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well plenty of us out there. Look for on with a nice smile. It shows that they genuinely like other people
2006-09-11 14:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend on how romantic he can be.. i heard aquarius r a romantic person
2006-09-11 14:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had such guys, but sometimes they are just a little bit too much....
Its up to you what you want...
2006-09-11 13:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Benks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋