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I just don't know what to do.......

2006-09-11 06:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Make a list of things you want to do and then go out and do them. If you're bored there are lots of places that need volunteers. Go back to school, join a club.... the whole point is to get out there and do something.

2006-09-11 06:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 4 · 0 0

You are not alone...it is the biggest question for most people.

First thing is to be happy with yourself. Then you can work on your environment.
True happiness for some is home and family. Others believe it is career, others friends. You must make up you own mind and then it depends on how much of a risk in life you want to take to get there from where you are.

2006-09-11 13:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by ADF 5 · 0 0

Happiness has different meanings for everyone; we each have
to define and seek it for ourselves.

Steps:
1. Figure out what is important to you in life. For example: Do you value a certain kind of job, material things, a relationship, time alone, time with others, time to relax, time to be creative, time to read, time to listen to music, time to have fun? These are just a few of the possibilities.

2. Think about times when you have felt happy, good or content. Where were you? Who were you with? What were you doing, thinking or feeling that made you feel happy?

3. Decide to make more time in your life to do more of what is important to you and makes you feel happier. To be happy, you have to make happiness a priority in your life.

4. Start with little things and work up to bigger ones. Little things might be reading for 15 minutes; taking a walk; calling a friend; or buying great-smelling soap, shampoo, candles or tea that you will enjoy every time you use it.

5. Focus on what is positive about yourself, others and life in general instead of dwelling on the negative. In a journal, write down as many positive things as you can think of. Keep it handy to read over, and continue adding to it.

6. Appreciate what is working in your life right now. In the major areas of your life, such as your health, job, love life, friends, family, money and living situation, what is going well?

2006-09-11 13:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0 0

When you can answer these 3 questions then life will have more meaning and purpose.
1. Where did I come from?
2. Why am I here?
3. Where am I going?

Let me know if you need help with the answers.

2006-09-11 14:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0 0

It sounds like you are in for a change. Try going back to school to study something new. Try a new hobby or take an art class. You may discover a new talent and meet some new people. Or maybe you just need to find someone new to talk to.

2006-09-11 13:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by malorieks 2 · 0 0

I think anything that we do would be soon boring if we do not have the burning interest to understand anything and everything. If we are interested we are very energetic and enjoying every moment of activity. I think hard work would become leisure if you are happy doing it. So if you want to understand within and without you of course with this never ending interest you can touch the never ending fire of happiness.

2006-09-11 13:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by ol's one 3 · 0 0

Best thing to do is change the place you live, escpecially if you go to a dramatic setting. If you live in suburbs, try the city or country. City- try country, suburbs. Or if you want to meet new people, move to a city where there is a diverse range of people.

2006-09-11 16:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by 1 4 · 0 0

You are stuck in a rut. You need an all-engrossing, fun hobby. You need to set some kind of a challenging goal for yourself and attempt to fulfill it, little by little. Go to church and get involved in clubs and activities.

2006-09-11 13:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'll tell you a thing that won't be boring. Email me at usafaerospace4@yahoo.com.

2006-09-11 13:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by usafaerospace4 1 · 0 0

IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE HAVING A MANIC EPISODE. HAVE YOU BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH BI-POLAR? HAVE YOU BEEN TAKING YOUR MEDICATION?
SINCE THE WORLD DOESN'T CATER TO YOU, YOU WILL HAVE TO FIND YOUR OWN WAYS TO KEEP YOURSELF CHALLENGED AND STIMULATED.
GO TO A GYM. GET A HOBBY. QUIT BEING SO DAMN CRITICAL AND JUDGEMENTAL OF OTHER PEOPLE. KEEP TAKING YOUR MEDICATION....

2006-09-11 13:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0 0

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