when i try he pulls away,and he doesnt want to talk about it .He tells me im crazy and laughs it off.What does a girl do?
2006-09-11 06:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he have intimacy issues. You may want to really examine that. Try to talk to him about it. But examine your relationship, does he look into your eyes when you orgasm: that is a true intimate connection, you are giving yourself toe each other which requires alot of trust. Are you facing each other during intimate moments? etc etc.. look into it. Kissing is very intimate.
2006-09-11 06:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First: DO NOT ASSUME IT IS YOUR FAULT!, But, seriosly, Not to be blunt...but I've NEVER met a guy who didn't love French kissing! (esp. if it led to sex!). Have you asked him WHY? Maybe (sorry) your breath is "bad", or just weird...or more likely, he feels insecure and thinks he won't do it "right". Contrary to the military's position on gays; DO ask...and DO tell! You can only gain from it.
Kissing is an art! Practice on your arm, yourself, even with a friend...and ask for their HONEST opinion. If it's a smell, then there are a variety of ways to deal w/it. (DO NOT EAT RAW ONIONS..EVER!!!)
If you clear up the above stuff, then experiment w/different ways of kissing, like just "grazing" or "exploring" his lips. Make him want MORE...dont' just "stampede" toward the (goal)! Also, some people produce excess saliva that can be seen as gross...ask if you do that... (My husand often does..no idea why, but I tell him to swallow it before we kiss, or even WHILE kissing).
Sorry....but the only answer, if you really wanna know, is COMPLETE HONESTY! As that SONG said, "It's in his kiss"! Truer words, baby...were never spoken!
Maybe it's him....maybe it's you, but more likely a combo of the two. Also, if you are under age 25-30...don't rush it! You learn as you go...BELIEVE ME!!!
The ironic thing is...that, by the time you've mastered sexual techniques that can hold ANYONE In your sway...you're often too freaking old!!!!
Just kidding on that last part...maybe!
2006-09-11 06:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to sense like that to while i became sixteen (by ability of how im 20 not that previous =)..) yet quite while i ended questioning/being concerned approximately it, i ended up assembly somebody =). attempt to not challenge approximately it plenty. You wont be a 60 year previous cat lady lol i assumed something like that too. i assumed i might finally end up being on my own, yet its quite not genuine. Yep you do have fairly some time and quite having a boyfriend isn't all that great. Its exciting formerly each and everything i assume you could say yet its not all that its made as much as be. i'm happy you're unlikely to "circulate with the group" and do what they do just to be popular, very mature. you quite wont see them so usually or not at all as quickly as you're out of highschool. Sorry rambled off slightly. do not challenge, you will locate somebody. try being greater talkative. i understand its much less demanding to declare then do, reason i became the comparable yet you could smile or merely say hi to guy who passes by ability of which you will like. not something huge. solid success =) sorry its see you later
2016-10-14 21:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He forgot how good it is to kiss. This happened to me and my hubby only I pulled away. Keep trying and tell him how it makes you feel. I know my hubby felt unloved so now i try more. It is hard once you get out of the habbit.
2006-09-11 06:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jesus! How in the world did he become ur husband? I'm sorry but if he can't satisfy me in all aspects and me him then why even bother, why should u do without? Try taking something away from him n see how likes it! :)
2006-09-11 06:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop trying to french kiss him. I am sure there is something you don't like that he enjoys and he refrains from doing it.
2006-09-11 06:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hopefully he might come around. he might just can't really stand it. Cant make him love it, thats his decision. I say it like that because sometimes i am the same way. really its like a mood for me. sometimes i dont mind and sometiems i do
2006-09-11 06:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by tHsEe420 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
French kiss is not hygenic. Just ask a dentist, he'll tell you that there are germs living in our mouth.
2006-09-11 06:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some people are just not into it, I am one of those people. It feels uncomfortable to me.
2006-09-11 06:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try french kissing his balloon knot instead
2006-09-11 07:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋