I want to know if there are signs of being gay i should be aware of. My hubby and i have been through alot in the last few years including MY EX....bothering me all the time, and i have noticed that he doesn't want sex too much anymore. He is kinda feminine anyway, his father is gay, and his mom is a ***** that shot her ex. To me I think he is attracted to other men for some reason. Not to mention guys that are gay check him out all the time. Should I be worried? Is it possible I turned him gay? I have asked him before and he said hell no but is it possible he is in denial? Please help me go figure.....Thanks
2006-09-11 05:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by littlemsbrad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
XXXXXXXXXXXXXX This is a tough call. A very tough call. Maybe he is and he's in denial like you said. Or maybe he just have feminine qualities that make him look gay. Either way, no one can tell you that. The only way you will find out, unfortunately, is in time. If you love him, you should seek marital counceling about the lack of intimacy or find out if he's getting it somewhere else. We all need love, attention and affection from out mate. Not getting it deminishes the relationship. Good luck hun.
2006-09-11 05:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have always liked guys and guys think I'm cute. I liked to look at guys but now I only have eyes for my sweet b/f. I think I was born this way and if your husband was born gay he will not be happy married to a girl unless you are very best friends. I have several great girls who are friends. Maybe your husband is bi. Perhaps let him experiment or give him some rough sex and see how he likes it. You have to be careful about AIDS. There's no cure for it yet so talk it over with him. Good luck!
2006-09-11 05:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a really shady question, and I am not encouraging an invasion of privacy, but: Have you ever found his porn stash?If it was prodominately female....then I am pretty sure he is heterosexual. If it was a bunch of men....then I don't know.
2006-09-11 13:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by CBL123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you didn't turn anyone gay... if he is in fact gay.
2006-09-11 06:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's not gay but bi-sexual. all you can do is ask him.
2006-09-11 05:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋