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My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and have two kids ages 6 and 4. We fight all the time (not physically) and I don't think he wants to be with me anymore. As the days go by I am feeling like I am falling out of love with him. He always puts me down, and never helps around the house. I just don't know what to do. Help!

2006-09-11 05:25:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I know what you are talking abouyt I kind of feel the same way I have a one and a half year old and I do stay at home with her and herfather does work a lot of hours but when he is home he just doesn't do anything to help out and I feel unaprecieted and as far as the sex thing it hasn't happened in three months but I am not going to give up just keep trying things may turn around

2006-09-11 05:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0 0

get a job and get out and go- if you cant ask him to leave - find a man who can apprieciate you. as soon as someone starts to put you down then you know that it is over - there is no respect . i think leaving him now is better then waiting till you really hate him.
maybe all you two need is a break to start fresh. move in to your moms or friend for a while and if you working , try getting yourself your own place , you do not need this kind of treatment and you are certainly not his slave to pick up after him - you have two kids not three and his way of talking to you is not acceptable. there are loads of fishes in the sea- yes i know that sounds corny but its true you can do better with out him - think about this for a while sit down and write down all the good points about him .. then after that write down the bad ones , if the bad ones are more then the good - then have a talk with him and tell him how you feel- if he is not takng you seriously or not giving you the time of day . wake up in the morning pack your stuff and kids and get out of that negative situation. people fall out of love all the time - look at the celebrities, even their lives arent perfect. you are a good woman and a good mother , think of them and do not subject them to this emotional abuse . good luck i hope you will be ok. ( get a job first and support for your children)

2006-09-11 12:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by candystore 2 · 1 0

Let him go, you don't need it . Trust me you are better than that. You will feel better about yourself without him. Go get someone that can love you and treat you right.Besides the kids don't need to hear the fighting they know more and see more than you think they do. So get out now .You will be glad you did later when you can relax in the quite without having to fight all the time.

2006-09-11 12:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell45656 1 · 2 0

You girls who want to shack up with a guy without a ring, read this ladies plea carefully; this is what happens!

Honey, you've been used, and it's not likely you're going to get him back. He never intended to stay ; He invested nothing emotional in this relationship. All he wanted was sex and someone to cook for him! Too bad you had kids before you got married; now they may not have any right to heirship.
Good luck. You need to get some supportive counseling, NOW!

2006-09-11 12:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0 1

baby girl, this is the time to have a good talk with him. no yelling, no accusing. like mture adults, you both need to open up. this will be turning point of your lifes. if you want to split up for the better of both of you, then do so. just make sure that you have a good plan for the future. you can't possibly stay in a broken relationship. it's just not healthy for your kids.

2006-09-11 12:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 0 0

For the sake of your children, either get counseling or leave. Its not good for the two of you to be fighting for your own sakes, but more importantly, your children don't need to be around it. It really messes them up, don't think that since they're so young, that they don't know what's going on. I'm here to tell you that they do.

2006-09-11 12:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by spunkyshell2000 3 · 1 0

I think that it is time to move on. If you aren't happy and fight all the time it is not good for you children. They need there father but you also need to think about yourself.
I think it is time to get out, find someone who will treat you right, you deserve better.
Good Luck.

2006-09-11 12:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 1 0

maybe you're just a b*tch,and will probably have bad relationships for the rest of your life,you may be fortunate enough to have found someone in this world who puts up with your crap,and should look deeper inside yourself to see what you can do to stop causing the arguments

2006-09-11 12:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by nameseekr 2 · 0 1

Yep - it's over.

Counseling or split - your choice.

2006-09-11 12:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 2 0

yep sounds like it is over.
go explore.good luck!

2006-09-11 12:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by needsx47 1 · 0 0

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