I have seen some of my friends of the threshold, but something calls them back - how many of you have been there
2006-09-11 05:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by 40andgoing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What stopped you from going ahead -
2006-09-11 05:13:20 · update #1
Every time I see a good lookin guy hello. I just know I will get caught duh. And I know I can fantasize about that good looking guy when Im wit my man(who looks good by the way) It is the thrill I guess.
2006-09-11 05:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly have never thought of cheating on my husband. Sometimes I wonder why in the heck I married him but I would never disgrace myself, him, our marriage vows or our children for something as trivial as an affair. I'm not perfect...I have eyes in my head and I do see attractive men out there but I do not even consider what it would be like to be "involved" with that man. I made my husband a promise and where I come from, promises are kept.
2006-09-11 12:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have though about cheating in my 25 years of marriage. Don't know if it was out of respect...but... I have never been able to do it because I know that I will feel tremendous amounts of guilt. What I have thought about is contemplating the big DIVORCE.
2006-09-11 12:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have. I won't even venture a guess how many times. But I never have. I just don't have it in my system. I'm a dying breed. But now my wife wants to leave me despite how faithful I've been. So what does it matter now. I'm pretty jaded now. So game on!
2006-09-11 12:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there myself when I was married but I didn't because I wanted my marriage to work and besides I had made a commitment to this man and I planned on keeping it.
2006-09-11 12:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes I have thought about doing it. the ones that said they haven't are lying. why because it human nature to look and want what we can't or shouldn't have . But the difference is that most of us (including myself) realize the pain and suffering we could cause isn't worth the few mins of pleasure that we could have received
2006-09-11 12:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i never cheated and never though about it bcz if you really love that person you will not do such a bad thing and will you be able to look at your self and respect yourself after cheated on your husband or bf and fiancee
2006-09-11 12:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've had plenty of opportunities, and never have. Flirting is reassuring sometimes, but you have a little voice inside that tells you how far is enough, and i beleive that voice is what differientiates us from animals.
2006-09-11 12:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been very close to cheating recently and glad I didn't. I have an on-line girlfriend now and have no intention of ever meeting or showing true identity.My friend has simular needs so it works for us.
2006-09-11 12:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am lucky enought to have a hubby that satisfies me in every way...in and out of the bedrm.
2006-09-11 12:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by lotsalovetanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋