Or email other men.My husband went inot my email am found a email in which i said to another man with out knowing him."you are cute,too bad your too young and i'm married.i found this guy on yahoo answers in which his question told you to check out his website and sign in his guest book.Thatt what i signed in his book.he emailed me back thanking me for visiting and thanks for the compiment.anyways my husbands pissed.Is he wrong to be pissed over something so stupid or was i in the wrong.
ps i love my husband and have never cheated on him or am looking to cheat now.
2006-09-11 05:05:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesn't know. I don't tell him everything I do. People need some privacy. We all need our own time.
2006-09-11 05:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by bfm 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think what you said was a little inappropriate, yes. Even though you wouldn't cheat, it may have made him feel a bit uneasy seeing that in your e-mail, he may have felt you were doing it behind his back. Open communication is important, if me or hubby think someone is attractive, we tell each other right away. Like, I saw this cute guy at the mall today, or I met a beautiful girl in the office today. It's normal to think someone is attractive, that's just human nature. But to answer your question, yes, my husband would get upset if I was talking to other men online. It always starts off innocent. Not to say you are on the verge on cheating, I don't know you, but it's like playing with fire.
2006-09-11 05:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably just felt a little betrayed by you. He's probably a little insecure, too. Maybe you shouldn't be sending another man an email or anything if your husband gets pissed about it. I mean, I'm sure you meant no harm, but to him, he saw it as you trying to cheat or something.
2006-09-11 05:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did wrong is that you did not tell your husband before he found it. He feels that if he hadn't you might have gone further and might be thinking you already have. Why is he mad. He is afraid he is not good enough for you.
He is not stupid for not wanting to share you or have you flirt with others.
You need to work it out with him and yes you were wrong not him.
I think your husband loves you a great deal and does not want anyone to get near you without him knowing it. Insecurity maybe. Love for sure.
Talk to him and don't fight about it.
2006-09-11 05:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he should be happy that you said too bad you are married, but people just want to see what they want to see.
Tell him that you would nver cheat on him and stop being a baby that you are married to him not dead. You still find people attractive and you know he finds some other women attractive, but neither of you would EVER cheat on the other.
If he is not happy tell him to shut up or you will cuckold him.
2006-09-11 06:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband gets upset when he thinks I am talking with guys online also. I can kind of see where he might get upset over that...the "too bad your to young and i'm married" part is probably what upset him. It kind of suggests that maybe you might cheat...even if you know you would never do that.
2006-09-11 05:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it may of been that he felt like your words(to young and your married) He prob. took it like you wish you wasnt married. I have a man that has a cow if i play pool on line or anything even this site he hates it when im on the comp. when he's not home but o well i dont do anything wrong so he can deal with it
2006-09-11 05:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes my husband is really pissed when i go on-line and chat,even if I go on Answers but I do it anyway.
Don't worry he just loves you very much and he doesn't want to lose you,
2006-09-11 05:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he has the right --- turn the situation around. How would you feel if he was email a female and stating the same thing???
2006-09-11 05:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by brainfreeze007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't stoop to chatting with other men online. No married woman should. How would you feel if your husband did the same thing? Of course you'd be angry!
2006-09-11 05:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) you are being insensitive when you did that, 2) he is being oversensitive about it ..3) marriages have been destroyed by innocent flirtations ... you owe him an apology at the least and a re-evaluation of your relationship to determine what may be lacking
2006-09-11 05:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋