I am 5'4 and 115 lbs.
My doctor said my body mass index is normal and I don't need to lose any weight.
I exercise every day and watch what I eat, but my bf keeps bugging me, and looks at me funny if I get seconds or drink a soda every once in a while.
How do I handle this tactfully?
2006-09-11 04:57:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2016-05-14 22:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 14:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*ahhem* ditch the boyfriend. no tact is needed, he's acting like an @ss.
he sounds like a control FREAK! trust me honey, if it's your weight today, it will be your clothes, then your friends...then your family. pretty soon you won't be "good enough" for him no matter what you do, and at the same time..he won't let you leave! and by then you'll be completely cut off from family and friends.
i spent 4 YEARS of my life with a jerk off like that.
get out now or regret it later.
there are SO MANY wonderful men out there that wont give 2 cents about your weight.
WHICH by the way is perfectly NORMAL!
2006-09-11 05:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really find yourself a new boyfriend. This is just a way of trying to control you. How dare he look at you funny if you get up for seconds. What an a**! It starts with this, and before you know it, you will see that he is trying to control you in other ways. (If you are not already noticing that) Trust me, I have been there.
2006-09-11 05:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lyrical Goddess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your doctor and tell your idiot boyfriend to keep his mouth shut. What an idiot. You sound just right to me. If your stupid BF has a problem, he needs to be kicked to the curb.
2006-09-11 05:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the doctor and get a new boyfriend.
2006-09-11 05:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you could stand to gain a few pounds, eat as much as you want as long as you are happy and feel good about yourself, and don't let superficial, immature little boys tell you any different.
2006-09-11 05:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Toyman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're really 5'4",and 115 lbs,and your boyfriend wants someone skinnier,you might suggest he try some 3rd world dating sites....
2006-09-11 05:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by nameseekr 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know if he really loves you he will not keep on telling you to lose weight. Tell him that if he really loves you he must accept you what ever you are.
2006-09-11 05:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋