I need help why do my friends pick on me. I know that i'm a little different than other people, but the only person that thinks i'm great and that's my boyfriend. What should i do or say to those that think there better than me.
2006-09-11 04:48:53 · 9 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The people that think they are better than you are just jealous. And if they were really your friends they wouldn't make fun of you. Just keep being your great wonderful self!
2006-09-11 04:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually... the question you need to ask is:
Why do you feel the need to have friends who pick on you? What is your reasoning for having friends like that? Clearly you are an intelligent, kind and caring person. Being different is good.. as long as you are not involved with negative or destructive behavior.
You should start to re-think why you allow people who are cruel to become "friends" Especially when it seems they are the ones with insecurities. People who think they are better than others hide their flaws, insecurities, issues, problems by putting other people down. When they put other people down or entertain an attitude of superiority... they are in actuality trying to divert their anger, dissappointments, and the issues in their sad lives onto the person that they are putting down... hoping it will make them feel better.
So bottom line... simply move on and continue being the great person you are. You also need to know "aside" from you boyfriend that you are a cool person and carry yourself according. Don't worry, you'll eventually find a much better quality of people to be a part of your life... TRUST!
2006-09-11 05:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People target others to make themself look like they have power over you .
What you do is make a change. That makes them turn there heads and say wow you look great .
Get yourself looking like a diva .
Just know that they are being shallow .
And friends who ridicule you or put you down. You can easily just show them to the door. You don't need to be brought down and you won't tolerate there bad attitudes that they use on you .
Make yourself feel good . do something as simple as a bath bomb explosian whil taking a bath
2006-09-11 05:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Adrial M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change hair style a little.
Dress according to your figure which suits you better.
Wear some makeup.
Have healthy conversation with your friend circle.
If this does not work then they are not meant for you let them go to h***
2006-09-11 04:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Pat wang52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did this. when they do it...pretend as if nothings happened..dont smile or frown at their comments.just IGNORE. and if it becomes too much....give it back to them...not rudely..but laugh and say it in a very funny way...by doing this u wont look bad and they ll get the message.and if this doesnt work....they dont derserve u.
2006-09-11 05:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by p_suzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them think they are better then you who cares i rather get picked on for being myself than be someone that is all fake
2006-09-11 05:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever those loser dish out to you...give it back ten fold. They are not better than you and you better let them know that! Stand your grond. they will respect you.
2006-09-11 04:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them...
I know its easier said than done, but why would you even consider them friends if they cant accept you for who you are????
2006-09-11 04:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show your abillty and talk to your friends is the better way...you cant stand out like this...
2006-09-11 04:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ah Fye . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋