My ex and I have been broken up since high school. I'm now in my third year of college. He was at one point very sweet and thoghtful also do anything for me. But, he went of to college. So I tryed to get over him. I did. With my now baby father. I told him I was pregnant. I wrote it in a text. So he never told me how he felt. But, on mothers day he wished me a Happy Mothers day. And every once in awhile he write me message saying he wished his girlfriend was me. A year passed by and always ran through my mind. So me and my child father was having really bad problems. I called my ex up. We chatted it was so good to hear his voice and to hear the things he said. From that day forward all the problems began.My ex made me choose between my child father and him. I choosed my child father cause I was very much in love with him. But, we did not work out. So months went by and I realized wanted to b wit my x. Now he has a girl. The tables has turned and now I'm his mistress
2006-09-11 04:42:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs.Juicy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why involve yourself with so much drama? It's sooooooooo unhealthy and you're a young mother too. What kind of advice would you offer your son or daughter if they came home with that same kind of story. I'm sure you wouldn't want them to be involved with a hot mess like that. If you gave your child words of advice in order to protect them from being unecessarily and foolishily hurt.... why wouldn't you use the same common sense approach/advice for your own life and circumstances. C'mon....Get it together with a quickness!
Your behavior screams "ISSUES and CONSEQUENCES"...
Get your priorities straight....Concentrate on finishing your education and stay focused on your career goals/plans. Give your whole hearted attention to being being the best parent possible. Be concerned over the example you are setting for your child.... You'd better believe that children pick up on negative behaviors and influences very early on and it will have a negative impact/effect on their lives while growing up into adulthood.
A relationship break is what you need and you also will obviously need to grow and learn how to respect yourself and other individuals in all of your relationships.... Work it out!
2006-09-11 06:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a vicious cycle. Why don't you concentrate on your baby? Get independent and enjoy yourself and your studies. I would get passed school first and then find a man. Your ex is an ex for a reason. It will never work and you should move on and find someone else. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 04:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh for shame. just enjoy yourself. you will get attached to one another and he will try to find a way out of his relationship. then after a while you will realize what you liked about each other was the excitement and sex, and then realize you are not able to get a long with each other. then he or you will find a lover and be in the same situation all over again. it is the circle of life.
2006-09-11 04:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First break up with your bf then tell him you want him back more then any thing. Tell him you want him back and will take him back.
2006-09-11 04:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be sooo proud of yourself
2006-09-11 04:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋