2006-09-11 03:52:52 · 17 answers · asked by chattykatty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to add that I am in love with this man. He is good to me......he opens doors buys flowers and jewelry and calls me honey...etc.....we love music and take showers together....he is my best friend. I am just afraid of his temper sometimes. And it is not an everyday thing; his temper. I am in a custody battle and messy divorce with my ex...two years now...so I think the stress of this is getting to us....especially him...he wants to get married. I am just confused...He has been married twice before....one left him and he left the other for me....my ex is emotionless and we were together 20 years...not friends and no intimacy....help....keep this one or not!
2006-09-11 04:36:14 · update #1
Ask him if you can just use him for sex because he can't fulfil your other needs. That'll shock him into self realisation and you might find he surprises you by providing the rest of what you need too.
2006-09-11 03:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently all he is to you is a sex object. Why the issue then? You attached?
First off, I don't understand why "sex" isn't more special than just having it w/someone without a relationship. If there IS a relationship, then maybe the sex is what's keeping you shackled.
I strongly believe in sex out of marriage being a sin, because of the lack of commitment and the emotional and mental damage that can happen. Also, because you lose so much everytime you do it that eventually there'll be nothing left to give to a man that You truly love and care for.
I hope you find what you need.
2006-09-11 11:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is so much more than just sex, of course its a great part, an importnant part of our relationships however not the only one. Its perfectly gr8 having a guy thats a bomb in bed but honestly, wudnt u want that man to also have a heart that wants u for u ? or someone to respect u ? or to be romantic enuf to take u out to dinner etc? Tell him u want more from him than just sex. If he cant give that ? well time to move on, there are many men out there that are gr8 in bed and to be honest us men,,,,,,well over time we do kinda learn what each woman likes and doesnt like to even if u get a guy that aint good in bed atleast u can have fun teaching him to be the best in bed for you !!!! well and him but u know what i mean
2006-09-11 11:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this with a guy.... I told him I was pregnant by another man and Then stopped talking to him... It was the only thing I could think of and it's working.... I avoid him now... He was so good...But he had some legal issues to work out... So I needed to get away... Good Luck... no matter what you do it's gonna be hard....
2006-09-11 10:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by secret agent lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats more important- sex or your own well-being? an open relationship could be an option, of course...but it has many disadvantages as well. it could hinder you from meeting a great person with whom you'd have the relationship you're dreaming of. tell yourself that there are so many great guys out there, he can't be the only bloke who's a fantastic lovemaker. there are others, who, in addition to that, have a personality which could suit you as well. so, my advice is, ditch this one and start searching for the next one. your choice though.
2006-09-11 11:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by babychi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard I know. Great in the sack but a jerk, been there. It is hard, but you have to weigh the pros and cons on this guy. If there are more cons that pros. Kick him to the curb. If you find a nice guy that isn't so great in the sack, teach him, tell him what you want. Guys love to be told that.
2006-09-11 10:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what is best for you - sex or happiness. I'm sure if you meet someone who you truly fall in love with (not simple lust) your love making will be fine. On top of that, you will be happy in the long run.
2006-09-11 10:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by whobeme021 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't like to share. Once you set up another relationship, he'll get sick of being your go-boy and move on. Contrary to popular opinion, super lovers finish last, not nice guys. As far as his feelings or yours, who's zoomin' who? B.
2006-09-11 11:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Brian M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im there now with my babys father. But im letting him go because great sex isnt worth me getting an STD or HIV @ that. Condoms dont protect against everything!
2006-09-11 10:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had 2 in my life, but in the end other things were more important than great sex.
2006-09-11 10:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋