i recently found out my boyfriend/baby father went to houston and stayed with his ex-girlfriend. During the relationship he told me that he was single and his ex-girlfriend moved to texas. He saved up a lot of money then took a trip to see her not to mention this was christmas and new year ( which is his birthday). that is all the information i know about it and i tried to ask him but he kept on lying to me about everything. I just want to know the truth.
2006-09-11 03:35:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its ok, if you like to be lied to??
2006-09-11 03:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My son's dad is a huge liar. He filed a lawsuit against me for joint custody. He worked in a public relations firm and he has some small town acting skills. I was terrified that I'd lose because he has honed all of these skills that allow him to present reality as something other than what it really is. I couldn't sleep or eat. The courts allow people to lie and they only get the big fish for lying in an attempt to keep everyone honest. I knew if he were caught lying in court, he would claim it was only an honest mistake. He didn't have much interest in his son until his new wife brought three of her children into the marriage.
He had never paid child support and the court was going to order a lien on his rental house. He felt he could still get joint custody because he claimed I had never asked for child support. The day before the trial I was checking on one of his small written lies on his financial statements and when I called public records, they basically told me that he transferred the house to his relatives. On court papers he claimed he still owned the house, so the court would not find out about his fraudulent transfer of assets. That's perjury. I had him over a barrel and he lost. But had he not been so brazen about his lying, he could have won.
I have now been through three years of court hell.
I don't think you should be spending your emotional energy in a search for the truth from this guy, I think you should spend your energy moving out-of-state.
2006-09-11 04:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you have to ask the question you must already know the answer but you are to afraid to face the truth. Your boyfriend is a cheat. And you know he is. Stop lying to yourself and face the truth no matter how hard it is. He only treats you like this because you let him. Listen to your gut it won't lead you down the wrong path.
2006-09-11 03:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by L'teefaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is a key element in a relationship. if it isn't there you may want to move on. if he keeps lying then he is proving to you that you are not worth the truth and he doesn't care about the relationship.
2006-09-11 03:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
advantageous men are nonetheless men they nonetheless choose for intercourse yet starting to be the "chum" is step one for that oh so akward drunken night. and additionally you could in no way be responsive to what they choose for yet for the jerks/cool men you be responsive to what they choose for externally, yet internally you will no longer get the prospect because of the fact the attitude could have you ever working into the hands of a "chum". i stumbled on a advantageous guy, and then i met his evil twin warm heades boastful attractive he particularly much has the full equipment (he hates sitting at abode- and doesnt choose for to %. up after himself). Momma's boy!
2016-12-15 06:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief. need you ask? he's lying to you and going to see his ex!!!!! and the two of you have a baby! I'd dump him and collect child support. doesn't sound like he cares about you or he wouldn't still be seeing his ex.
2006-09-11 03:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Texas T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on- too much lying you can never trust him, plust he was out of line for staying with an ex to begin with- he doesnt have any consideration for your feelings- I think you should leave him- theres better fish in the sea
2006-09-11 03:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point does it really matter. He is a liar and will always be. The best thing for you to do is move on with your life without him.
2006-09-11 03:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its time for this kid to go if he sleeps eith his ex their isnt no telling who else he has been with. Let that dog out on the curb.
2006-09-11 03:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No good. Unless you like relationships based on lies. Thats what I m going though right now myself. It sucks when you are not a liar but your mate is.
2006-09-11 03:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by rockinbrock2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This particular truth -- no, it's not worth staying with the guy.
2006-09-11 03:38:56 · answer #11 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋