Actually, my boy friend is hanging out with a gurl named Suthen. So. can u tell me what to do now?
Should i go 2 her n tell her to stop meeting him, or.........?
Pls give me some advise.
2006-09-11 03:30:26 · 14 answers · asked by Shadow girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Walk away and get yourself a new man. No one is worth the trouble to fight over.
2006-09-11 03:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend since you do sound jealous that he's hanging out with her. DO NOT talk to the girl, though. Find out what is going on and go from there. If they're just hanging out as friends, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. If it's more than that, dump him and move on. By what you're asking in your question, you're very insecure when he's hanging out with other females and you don't trust him. That's something that you really need to work on or you'll wind up losing him. You don't own your man and you guys are not married. You can't tell him who he can and cannot hang out with. Just talk to him. You'll feel much better.
2006-09-11 11:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a relationship with trust is a very difficult thing to accomplish. Speak with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. If you go to her you can break the bond between you and your boyfriend. If she were to tell him what you did he may react badly.
Also if you are young and he decides to be a butthole ditch the idiot and find someone who will respect your wishes. From a guy- unless this girl and your boyfriend have a common hobby he's not looking to just be friends.
2006-09-13 09:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to the girl and politely and be subtle, and ask her how she meet your boyfriend. That's the most nice and non- viloent starting way i can think of, that you can get a decent answer without any confrontations.
2006-09-11 10:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Prime Hunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats being a tad over conscious. You could say something however it may come across as being jealous. Tell him how you feel but dont tell him to stop seeing her, it can have dire consequences.
2006-09-11 10:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him casually why he is hanging out with her? maybe it's innocent don;t let it get to you. No. don't go tell her not to hang out with him because that makes you look insecure. Talk to him about it.
2006-09-11 11:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she gives you probable cause to suspect he is cheating then i would but If you do so and you find out that they are just friends then I wouldn't do that. but what do I know I was only cheated on two times. so there you go.
2006-09-11 10:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by animeguy84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he meeting with her? does he know that you know,if so tell him why hes doing that and it better stop,unless its just for friends.
2006-09-11 10:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what is going on or dump him
2006-09-11 10:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love cat fights
2006-09-11 10:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by boywonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋