for me he have no respect in me...im filing a divorce to him now...coz i know im pretty and i couldnt see contententment in his eyes....i dont know how would u react to me..
2006-09-11 03:22:58 · 21 answers · asked by char 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
good luck out there....
2006-09-11 03:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r leaving him coz he looks at other girls?or he gets a new girl home every nite?1st one is hardly a reason for divorce.or u r looking for a reason for divorce?i am married for more than 10 years.its so natural and normal for men to look at other women.i dont feel bad about it coz if i make it an issue he'll do that behind me.c'mon learn to give space and freedom to others.believe me all the men in the world do that.does that make u feel better?u say u r pretty.look prettier and grab attention of all the men around u.just see if he files a divorce for that reason?its too big a step ! think twice coz if u get into some other relationship u will again face this.believe me !
2006-09-11 10:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand and think that it is disrespectful to you. Though it is not wrong for him to look at other women, it is wrong to do when he is with you. I know the feeling. It makes you feel unwanted and gives your confidence a downfall. I would react the same way. I would talk to him first, before doing anything serious and ask why he does it. I would also ask if he is content with me. If, at the end of this conversation you find that he is not attracted to you, you may want to consider divorce. If he is, seek some kind of counseling.
2006-09-11 10:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Etienne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally believe what you are doing is not out of hand. If you feel that horrible about his wandering eye you don't need that in your life. It lowers your self-esteem and you may even get into a depression that is totally unessesary b/c of this fool!!! I wish you the quickest divorce so that you can be happy and find a man that values you for the beautiful wonderful women that you are...
2006-09-11 10:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip! My goodness divorce over your husband noticing a women is attractive? Don't try and tell me you don't notice an attractive man when he comes into the room. Don't you notice when someone dog ugly walks by? What is the difference? You need to grow up.
2006-09-11 10:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people are going to tell you that this is normal. Every man does this and looks at woman whether your with them or not. And this is true. But listen to me:
ANY MAN WILL DO THIS, you have had ex's (i hope) in the past that you have caught doing this and it DID NOT give you and bit of WORRYING. You see your HUBBY doing this and it WORRIES YOU. THIS IS A WOMAN INTUITION. You think he will or may have cheated on you.
-DO NOT let him tell you it's otherwise
DO NOT let him play a little jedi mindtrick on you, or you will go for a long bumpy ride until you catch him with another woman.
2006-09-11 10:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you do it to him and see how he likes it..... my husband was like that too and then we I started doing it he never said anything about... then one day I said "Hey, look at the booty on that woman and we both started talking about it not that I'm gay or bi and after a while that's what we used to do he would say would you date that man... do you think he hair is sexy....I don't think that with him looking is grounds for a dircove....Talk to him about after all he is a man.... I know that you have looked at another man but he just didnt see it ....
2006-09-11 10:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt him that has a problem if you are jealous. You need to look at how you may be ruining the relationship with your jealousy. It takes two to cause a problem.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-11 10:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men's eyes will roam. Most of the time it's harmless. I have to ask, when he's looking at another woman is he drooling? If so then you might have something to worry about.
2006-09-11 10:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are overreacting to the natural male tendency to look at women. it's like a dog smelling the ground. it has nothing to do with respect for you. it is their nature. you should get used to it and let him enjoy it. there must be more than that wrong for you to be getting divorced.
2006-09-11 10:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell did you marry him in the first place if you don't like him looking around?? Are you telling me you didn't notice this little personality trait before your wedding???
Give me a break!
2006-09-11 10:25:25 · answer #11 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋