I have been married for 4 years. I love my wife dearly, but I am about at the end of my rope. She treats me like dog crap, even though I work very hard and basically cater to her needs 24/7. I don't know what her deal is. There is no other guy, I am positive of this. She basically shrugs off my attempts to talk to her about anything at all. I am very attractive, fit, hard working, etc and I know I deserve more than this. At the same time, I don't want to just give up on everything.
2006-09-11 03:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by DK28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-09-11 03:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know maybe you are too easy for her. Some women and men like spouses that are a little more aggressive. You don't have to be abusive but surprise her by not be so agreeable. Maybe stop catering to her 24/7. Seems like your woman want you to be less catering. Don't get me wrong, I personally would see nothing wrong with the 24/7 catering. But your wife has issues with you.
2006-09-11 10:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am thinking that you are tooo nice of a guy and she sees that she can walk all over you and you won't do anything about it. you are what they call a "yes-man". A lot of woman like it in the begining and then get bored with it because it is to easy. I agree to stop being a yes-man and start standing your ground and be a man. if she sees that you are not going to do what ever her little heart desires, you will see a big change in her adittude. she will either get pissed off and that will show that she was just using you and then i would tell her to hit the road, or she will get very turned on by you taking a stand and that might be all that was needed.
2006-09-11 14:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other guy, this you know for sure .... is there a girl?
If you work very hard, how often are you home, how much time do you spend together.
As well, there is room for the possibility that she is just a spoiled princess who feels not need to show any gratitude or love for all that you do for her ... if this is the case boy -- I'd be re-thinking the whole past 4 years.
2006-09-11 10:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is ungrateful to me or maybe she's even losing the feelings she once had for you. In any event, if she is not willing to communicate with you then I think you should let her go. Trust me, if you bring it up (separation or divorce), if she don't seem to sad about it then she probably do have someone else, if she is screaming and crying her eyes out then you know that something else is going on with her that is making her distant from you. Try your best to communicate with her again and let her know how you truly feel and if things don't change for the better you will move on.
2006-09-11 10:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by LuvAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Just because you "cater" to her doesn't mean that you make her happy. Some women hold stuff in. Maybe if you let her vent on what-ever it is that's making her mad, she'll get it off her chest and you can fix it. It could be something very simple & stupid. Lots of women are very selfish and we blow things way out of proportion.
2006-09-11 10:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she really don;t love you then she should be appericated that you take care of her she is a lucky women. alot of woman are looking for a good man and women like thay are ruining other womens chances of finding a good man. all i can tell you is hopefully she realizes what she is doing or she will not have you there to be there for her when she needs you. when is she going to do anything for you? I'm so sorry your in this predicatment.
2006-09-11 10:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this sound familar? Wife is never satisfied with whatever husband does... i.e. Bring her flowers, she complains you waste money. Bring her flowers, she thinks you are cheating. Be nice to her, she asks what did you do?
You must be the first man in the world to have a wife who is not satisfied with whatever you do for her.
2006-09-11 10:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried counseling? I know thats what everyone says, didn't work for me but everyone is different, maybe for you it will. I hope you guys can work it out...divorce is no fun.
2006-09-11 10:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say pu$$y whipped? I knew you could>
2006-09-11 13:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋