My wife cries all the time?

Question

I ask her what's wrong but she just hits me and goes away( i'm thinking of sending her to the coocoo house) but what should i do?

Answer 1

Embrace her in a restraining way and let her know that you're too physically strong for her to lay a punch on you. She might be testing you to see if you are a strong man.

Answer 2

To be honest the cause of this type of behaviour could be one of many many things. Although in my experience it tends to lead to either A, unhappy in a marridge , b) a guilty conscince, C) a mounring for something of someone. The problem that u need to deal with in the short term that she doesnt fall into a depressive state, if that happens then its a case of getting medical teatment and this could be a long and drawn out preocess. I would recommend a 1st step of talking to her when she is in a "normal" mood, a geat time is just after dinner after the kids are asleep. Talk to her, ask her how she is feeling, ask her if she knows what the problem is ? Once u know the source of the problem only then can u make any steps to rectifying her issues. Its not going to be easy and there is a huge chance that she wont thank you or even be abuseive, however it is now time to back up those vows u took at the alter ? In sickness and in health ? Depending on the problem at the root, ur wife is depending on u to help, she just doesnt know how to ask for it. Hope this helps and good luck to you :)

Answer 3

I can only answer from experience. You question doesn't go into a lot of detail, however I think it's because you actually don't have the slightest clue, so here goes. It could be hormones. Is she on birthcontrol? Is she trying a different type of birth control. I can't be on any hormonal birth control due to being on an extreme emotional teeter-totter. One moment I'm fine the next I'm PI$$ED off, the next I'm bawling my eyes out. Another reason she could be pregnant. Another, she could be hiding something from you. Have you moved recently? Seh could be home sick. Has she lost a job? Have you been cheating? She could possibly be thinking it? Try to think back about when it started and see what has changed. Good luck!

Answer 4

Maybe she needs some hormones especially if she has had a hysterectomy ,or maybe she knows something she is not telling you an trying to keep it all in but it may be to painful to hold it in,sending her to the mental hospital want solve it if it is environmental ,her surroundings may need to change an this could include some things you need to start doing or EVEN NOT DOING ! but sometimes women are hormonally out of balance an we don't even know why we cry but we will appreciate a man that understands us more than just makes fun of us!

Answer 5

well I can see ur really concerned, Not. if she just hits u n goes away then u know whats wrong because u caused it. damn does not take a brain surgen 2 figure that out. what the hell did u do. maybe u should look back 2 when this behavior started. then maybe u should try saying Im sorry hunny what can I do 2 get u 2 forgive me.

Answer 6

try asking her best friend what the problem could be...Or does it happen only once a month? Lots of women get extremely emotional during that time of the month or when they are pregnant...In any case it doesnt sound like you're the problem so just try to comfort her if thats what she seems to need or give her space if not....

Answer 7

You don't mention how old she is ... but could be a few things
1. she's pregnant
2. she's in peri-menopause
3. she's depressed

Maybe instead of continually asking "what's wrong", take her in your arms and let her know that you love her and when she is ready to disclose (if she herself knows) what is the root of her crying she will. She's more apt to respond faster to a hug than a question she can simply walk away from.

Answer 8

Recommend she see her doctor for an evaluation, because she sounds depressed; frequent crying and isolation are two common symptoms of depression. It is very difficult for depressed people to make themselves do things sometimes, so you might have to make the appointment for her and drive her to it. She may need anti-depressant medication, counseling, or both. The way you describe it sounds serious, so I hope you will treat this seriously.

Answer 9

Take her in the car to the nearest asylum. To keep her calm on the way just hum that Hawaiian tune, y'know, the one that goes "Do do doooo doooooooooo, do do dooo doooooo"...

Answer 10

This could be a serious depression and she needs professional help. Get her to a mental health clinic at once.