She anoyed me. she did something really terrible. I am angry
2006-09-11 02:45:23 · 35 answers · asked by omar h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her your angry but you still love her
2006-09-11 02:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath and a time out. Then, think of why you love her and about some really nice things she has done for you in the past. When you are both calm, talk calmly to her about what happened. Really listen to her and then express your feelings. Don't yell, don't blame, don't criticize her. Come at it from how her behavior made you feel. It is up to her to change and up to you to give her the space to allow that to happen.
2006-09-11 02:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her azz and stay the night out with a really hot model....(this is what you do in your dream)
Wait and remain calm, until you are ready to talk with her as adults..she should then apologize if she knows she was in the wrong and you two would be very much better off after you have talked things out...
2006-09-11 02:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, go and cool off. Relax. Take a drive or go for a walk.
Then once you're calmed down I would suggest talking to your wife about why you're angry with her and what it was she did that caused you to become upset with her.
2006-09-11 02:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m woman. and also did something really terrible to my man, who loves me so much,. and can just tell u how was with him. it was the worst time in our relaton. and all this situation learned me much. the most it that will never make same mistakes...
he was so so so so ANGRY SO MAD... was hard to talk with him. he was ignoring me as much as he could. treating so that thought gonna loose him. just gave me to think how much important is he for me. and that it is not like this that i hurt him then he get angry and after a while we play like nothing happened. u can't do diffren with ur wife. she has to understand thing she did was really wrong. she has to understand she can loose u if she will make same. coz men do that mistake.. then r weak with woman, we do something wrong but good sex and they r happy. nope nope. she has to respect u... be hard man. let her now try about u to get u back. when he was treating me like that i thought gonna kill myslelf if will not get back my loving caring man. coz that tme he was terrible. but i know he wanted teach me... and he did. i will not make same stupid thing as i did before. i respect him and his feelings to me.
but yea remember when u feel she regrets talk her... listen her... tell what she did to u.. don't live with anger too long...
2006-09-11 02:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by kolo molo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a breath....maybe go for a walk and allow your anger to subside...I know that you are upset with her actions but not at her...just try talking about it with her after you've settled down...I know how you feel...my husband makes me so mad all the time...he always wakes me up to make his lunch or find him something to wear it pisses me off...I know there are things that make you mad but remember you still love her and try to work things out be there for her like you would want her to be there for you.....
2006-09-11 02:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm angry at my spouse, I remind myself that he's only human & that I'm no better than he is... I do wrong too... & I certainly do desire his forgiveness.
Then, after I've calmed down, I discuss the offense with him in a reasonable manner so he'll understand why I was angry.
2006-09-11 02:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's hard to tell you ... with 'she did something really terrible'.. what did she do ?...
if she cheated on you.. throw her out...
if it's just an argument. take a deep breath.. and the 2 of you need to sit down and talk otherwise you'll just divorce like everybody else does.
2006-09-11 02:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on what she did. But if you really love her yah should talk about whatever the problem is so yah can work it trought. Be patient and try to put yourself in her situation!
2006-09-11 02:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a walk or count to 100. being mad is not good for you nor expressing the anger. you have to express the anger in a positive way.
2006-09-11 02:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by pikapoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta have more info,I'm sure your upset but when I read question like that,I have to wonder,What made her do something so terrible to you.Think of that and, maybe that will be a start for ya.Good Luck
2006-09-11 03:00:30 · answer #11 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋