2006-09-11 02:42:51 · 11 answers · asked by big_strong_one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well Ive been there myself. I had a gut feeling that my ex was cheating on me. When I questioned him he accused me of being insecure. I don't have an insecure bone in my body.....the truth has a way of revealing itself my friend. My advice would be to trust your instincts.....don't ask questions...unless they are leading questions....my experience has been that if you give them enough rope, they hang themselves!! I know it's one of the worst feelings in the world....it feels like a rejection and hurts the ego a bit...but please believe me, it's not you....you deserve better...my best wishes to you! ((((((hug)))))))) I do know what it's like...that's what the hug is for :)
2006-09-11 02:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thought my husband was cheating and I was right. I went to this web site and found out there are signs to look for. All I did was type something like, "How to tell if your spouse is cheating" and all kinds of stuff came up. When I asked my husband I know he was lying because his lips were moving. (j/k) The way I found out was I asked him to swear to God and if he lied he'd be punished my his Lord. (we're Christians but we're human too) That made him fess up. I'm glad he did because I was about to hire a private investigator and have to pay out of my a$$
2006-09-11 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't treat you the same way they did at the beginning of your relationship.. you are not as happy... they dismiss your question when you ask what is wrong...
but the most important thing... your gut feeling... and wandering eyes.. if someone can't look at you in t he eyes when you talk to them... they are lying.
2006-09-11 10:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually your instinct to let you feel that something is wrong with he or she when they cheated on you. When my husband cheated on me in our beginning of the marriage, my feelings told me that he was doing something by his own and not close enough to me.
2006-09-11 10:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually there is a gut ffeeling that tells when something is wrong. Listen to what it says and go from there.
2006-09-11 09:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i feel like that all the time, cuz he's in the ARMY and he's gone all the time so when he comes home i want some loven and he's not intresed. he says he's tierd,somtimes i belive him and some times i dont,cuz if he's not getting at home he most be getting it some where.(wright)
2006-09-11 09:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by ladyindia2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case it wasn't hard she had umm somethign dripping out was easy to tell just go take a look
2006-09-11 10:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Wondering If ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your patner is more interested with going out with her/jis mates. if he drops everything to help a mate even if your baby is sick and in hospital it is more than likely they are being unfaithfull
2006-09-11 09:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extra sperm or lipstick makes its way to your house somehow.
2006-09-11 09:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will just know.
2006-09-11 09:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋