Do you think there is such thing as natural roles for men and women....if so why do you support them??

Question

What suits some will not suit others.......there is no rule for everyone.......etc etc etc.......if so why support traditional gender roles??

Also....men have natural violent and aggressive instincts does that mean they should act them out....?

Answer 1

Men are fairly simple creatures; it's in our biology. Men are geared to reproduce quickly and often. That is why sex can be so short for us; and why a picture of a hot woman is enough to get a man aroused. Men are capable of multiple relationships with multiple women. They can stay in a serious relationship, but only if they are willing to make the commitment. The biggest problem with men is that they often think with their lower head, rather than the one that sits on top of their neck.

Women are more complicated. They need to carry a baby to term and raise it. A picture of a hot man can get some women excited, but not for long--they need a relationship. They want to know a man, and they want to be able to trust him to possibly raise a child. Women are geared to hunt for a mate that they can raise a child with; it's in their biology. Women want a stable relationship with one man. A woman often seems to get less out of sex because their biology requires either multiple sessions or they require a longer session to insure that the male has a better chance of putting his sperm where it can create a child. This explains the women’s greater need for foreplay. They need to build up to a climax.

Humans are one of the few creatures that are always in “season.” A human can breed all year round. This makes it better for the male to spread his genes, and lets the woman use the allure for sex to hold on to their mate. When sex becomes less frequent the male’s attention may wander. Generating sperm is easy to do, and men do it in the thousands for most of their lifespan. Women have a set number of eggs and a period of youth and adult stages when they can get pregnant. Carrying a baby to term is a difficult, and often dangerous task, one that can only be attempted by someone who is very fit. This is why women have menopause and why after a time sex starts to lose its attraction.

Some women are attracted to the dangerous man. While at first this doesn't seem like a good idea, the dangerous man is more likely to win in any competition. If a woman is with such a man then she can be assured that another man won't try to take her away from him. Again it's all in the biology. Look at the lion pride. The strongest male has a harem of females. He gets them pregnant and they raise their cubs. The male has to defend himself against other rival males. He spends most of the night making loud growls to show the others that he is the dominant male, and he will fight off any competing males. When a new male takes over, the first thing he does is to kill all the old male's cubs. This puts the females into heat, and he can breed with them.

Unfortunately, since women are complex creatures they think that men are. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Men are simple creatures; they look for the simple and straightforward solution of problems. Since men are less complicated then women we tend to have problems understanding them. Complexity doesn’t mean smarter than simple, it means that a different approach is being used.

Men like sports because it is a trial by combat. They may claim other reasons, but the most basic one is the combat. A male biology gears the man to be able to defeat his rivals and hold on to his mate(s). This is why men are better fighters.

Humans may be reasoning and intelligent beings, but they still have the same instincts that they started with. We are a lot closer to animals than we think. The difference between humans and the animals is that mankind can rise above their instincts. We can use tools, and change the environment to suit us. Once that happened though mankind became immune to evolution. We can attempt to improve the breed, weed out problem genes, and turn others on or off, but we cannot escape our instincts.

Our intelligence lets us rise above our instincts. A woman can be a soldier, but she may prefer a more caring approach. A man can be a homemaker, but he may prefer to go out into the wild and hunt (he often does this by getting a job). Women and men can do each other’s jobs, but their biology has defined roles for them and their instincts have to be overcome.

A woman's default mode is to be the caretaker, they are just as capable as men are, but their genes and their instincts are always present. They don't need a lot of sex because the survival pattern of their genes is to raise the children that they have.

A man's default mode is to be the provider and to be sexually active. This is the best survival pattern for out genes. Men have to fight, win mates, provide for them, and are still capable of having sex with many women. Their roles are performed best outside of the home. So they are the adventurers and the travelers.

Because men want to go out into the world, and women want to stay in the nest. Men think they are better than the woman. Childbirth is a dangerous activity, and child rearing is a full time job (especially if the mother has to teach the child). Because of this the women need to stay at home and be protected. Men then think that this means the woman is weak.

Men and women can rise above their instincts and do well in any field, but their genes have a default mode, which is the best design to reproduce. The genes set our instincts so the traditional roles of men on the hunt and women at home with the children are the most common roles. It's all in the genes. These decisions aren’t made consciously they are a product of the genes who’s only goal is to survive.

A woman can be a hunter and adventurer, but they are going against their genes. Men can provide childcare and maintain the home, but again they are going against their genes. If they fall into their default mode then hunting woman will want to protect the animals and the female adventurer will want to go home; while the man at home will get restless and want to go out into the world. The traditional roles are expressions of the best survival patterns for each sex, and that is at the core of all they are.

Answer 2

For me, I think I have a natural gender role. I'm just girly. And I like to do the 'girl' stuff. I think I'm in a very sexist marriage, and that's what works for us. I got my education, I take care of my kids, and I won't return to the workforce for years. That works for me, but I wouldn't dream that it would work for everyone! The hardest part of being a woman is the greatest thing---you can do whatever you want.

Answer 3

There are natural roles for both genders because science has already verified that their patterns of thought and instincts are different, which suits them better to certain trained tasks.

Attempting to homogenize the sexes and races is simply discrimination to ALL.

Answer 4

Be natural go with the flow that's where your power is
So Yes, Use your talent to the full.
Life is full of surprise though
So you may find men gentler than a woman and a woman stronger than a man. Go with the flow.

Answer 5

Yes. Child bearing is the natural role of women. That also includes breast feeding.

Do not blame me. Nature made it that way.

Answer 6

That's all very confusing to me. Don't ask me, I'm clueless. If I had one question to ask god or whoever invented all this, it will be: why are we, men and women, so different. why. why. I think we should all go back to our planets, or maybe we should switch, how about that? Men should go to Venus, women should go to Mars, and then after 1,000,000 years we should come back, see if we've learn anything

Answer 7

Roles are as follows:

Women give birth, nurture and provide the building blocks of society.

Men squander, plunder and destroy it.

Answer 8

which role r u talking about......in society.....or in relations.....we all have roles.....and they r very different.....