How should I change myself? Ever since I was 26/27 I have been thinking that sex is the most important think in life. I am 33 now and I am single (maybe that is the reason why I am single or maybe I think sex is so important because I am single). Of course, not THE most important thing, but right after health, being safe, not breaking any laws and not embarrassing yourself in front of other people.
2006-09-11 01:46:25 · 10 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The sex drive is high so that we can continue as a species. Testosterone is the same chemical in men and women which cause sex drive. Maybe you have a higher testosterone level. Changing isn't the important part. Just find a man who can "keep up with you" Although most will not agree sexual compatability is a large factor in finding love.
2006-09-11 02:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is important true.
It just depends what you want out of life. Just thinking ahead for a moment though:
Do you want children?
If yes, do you want to raise them alone? Do you want to get up all through the night to feed and put them back to sleep? Or do you envision someone else helping you with those things?
What about what sort of life you want in 20 years? Do you want to have a family of your own by then and and maybe even grandchildren? If so, you will have to start thinking of family issues soon!
When your 50+ years old, having love and family around you is very important and having sex will still be important. Perhaps you could think about having a special someone to share all of that with.
Sex is fun, healthy and enjoyable. The only advice I can give is that in order to save yourself heartache in the years to come, it takes planning. There are alot of other great things about life just try to balance them out. You might end up sorry that sex was the most important thing in your life if you lose sight of other potentially enjoyable experiences.
2006-09-11 09:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by quay_grl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not that important I haven't had sex in ten years and I don't miss it that doesn't mean that I would not like to have a man in my life to love. Are you confusing sex with love? Because they are different. There are so many things that could be more important to you if you were to look outside the box.
2006-09-11 17:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by patricia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is one of the gifts we have been given as human beings but that's what it is a gift. Intimacy with another human being starts with sharing, caring and unselfish acts of love.
Sex itself is the most intimate act between two people who truly love each other but of itself is only a small part of being a decent human being and a partner. That knowing look, that intimate touch and so on are all part of a healthy loving relationship.
Too often in today's world, sex is viewed as love but can just be an act of self-gratification. Relationships built on this attitude are like buildings built on sand with no foundation.
I am not speaking from a moralistic point of view but from life experience.
2006-09-11 08:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for reprioritization of behaviors to occur throughout your life. Sex does become less of a high priority as you get older, sex drive changes and frankly it can start to get kind of boring, after all there are only so may ways of engaging in the activity.
2006-09-11 08:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not radical. You are just in touch with your sexuality. Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong wiht never having kids or marrying either... you just have different priorities and it's great you know what you want out of life.
The right/wrong comes from where you're getting your sexual needs met. If you can't commit to one man, that points to a deeper problem relating to intimacy, relationships, and/or commitment. Not sure if this applies to your situation or not, but it's something to think about.
2006-09-11 08:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should learn to enjoy embarrassing yourself in front of other people,a good start would be a little inappropiate sex/nudity.it is very liberating when the embarrassment turns to a rush.
2006-09-11 10:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by denny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be most men's dream come true,, why are you so single,, were you faithful?
2006-09-11 08:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by ??Dani??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what they would call a 'Nympho'....I myself use to be 1 too....but now im trying to change my ways and i am still single....this shyt sucks!...Mind as well continue to get it off
2006-09-11 09:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seek for other things you're passionate about. there's more to life than sex...
2006-09-11 08:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by chinoise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋