hes 24 and im 16 and his ex still rings him now and hes change his number but he still got the over sim card in a different phone!!!!!! hes got a little boy whos 6yrs old wot do i do??????
2006-09-11 01:16:43 · 19 answers · asked by maria_loves_martin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's 24 and you're 16. There's a problem in itself. Can he not get a girlfriend his own age? That kind of age gap is acceptable when you're older (like 30/38, even 20/28) but not at 16. Frankly it's pervy. You're only ten years older than his child.
2006-09-11 01:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by K38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that you don't trust him also, If you both don't have trust in each other then is there really any point in the relationship?
Relationships are meant to be built on trust. Trust should always come first before anything, Otherwise it can result to all different types of issues.
I think you should find a guy around your age, Your boyfriend clearly has too much of a responsibility on his hands and eventually will not have any time for you.
You can't expect him to not talk to the mother of his child, as this could result in him losing his family.
2006-09-11 01:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by kixXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y r u dating a 24 yr old? U still have alot of growing up to do, and how can u have no trust but love that does not even sound right. In order for a relationship to work u must have both not one or the other.
2006-09-11 01:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No trust no love! By the way he is a bit of a pedophile don't you think. You are 16 he is 24 he has no business being with you, you are too young to be in a relationship, go out and enjoy yourself.
2006-09-11 01:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may want to keep in contact with his son or if a emergency pops up she will be able to call him. I can understand that. Bit I dont understand is that you are 16 years old and he is 24. You may act or look older than you are and you may be happy with the age gap but you still have alot to see in the world. Dont grow up to fast just yet and have some fun until you rneaer the age he is now
2006-09-11 01:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by alismudge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. You are too young for him. It is against the law to do anything with you.
2. You say he doesn't trust you but he loves you but you don't talk about that in your message. Is it you who doesn't trust him?
How can you love someone and not trust them. What good is that. If there is no trust, there is no relationship.
Break it off with him. He is too old for you and he has a child. You need to enjoy life and not get settled with his family.
2006-09-11 01:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to date him...he is too old to be seeing a 16 yr old girl.
END IT...put more into your education, going by the way you wrote the question and the blog beneath it, you need schooling!
Kids of today are trying to grow up too fast and they need to slow down and enjoy being children.
If you don't you will just end up as a young mother with a brood of children, no life of your own...no love to grow old with.
CHANGE your life now, you don't have to stop having fun, but remember with true love there must be trust, they should go hand in hand.
2006-09-11 02:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Eriduserpent~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hallo if there's any miss trust your the one who should not be trusting him. I mean his ex still phones him. Ja he has a kid but what do you know what they speak about over the phone. There's no love without trust! Love and trust blends together! If he cant trust you I don't think his the right person for you! You should be able to trust someone with your everything not just love them.
2006-09-11 01:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girlfriend,WAKE UP. when he said he does not trust and you are 16years old, he is looking for someone younger then you, If there is no trust, there is no Love. Why are you going out with a 24 year old for, That is Rape in some states, do wish to see him in Prison???? They wiil rape his A** For what he is doing to you, Leave him alone Now.
2006-09-11 01:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 24 yr.old man with a child who dates a minor has serious problems and belongs in jail. DROP HIM FAST! Don't feel guilty about it either. You don't even need to justify it.
2006-09-11 01:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋