i am 5 months pregnant and stressed i thought i had most of my supplies for the baby but my last ultra sound they thought they picked up another heart beat. my hcg levels have been high since begining but they told me it was just one! i am going to be a single mom my ex. bf and i are not together and he is going to hit the roof in a bad way when he hears this he only recently started coming around again.Please help my next ultra sound is not till friday at the hospital and i am nervous as hell.can it be wrong?
2006-09-11 00:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i have only gotten 3 hours of sleep tonight
2006-09-11 00:55:38 · update #1
You poor thing. I know about the whole stressed thing, my husband and I have been trying for a baby for what seems like ages now. I had a positve pregnancy test about a month ago and set up a Doctors apt, which still isn't until Friday and I have been so stressed out, only about 2 maybe 3 hours of sleep a day. Just because I want to know for sure. So I sorta know how it is. But yes it could be wrong, I wouldn't worry about it, thats only bad for baby(or babies). You'll be fine, just relax and breathe. It could be wrong, so no point in stressing out over something you have no control over. Good luck
2006-09-11 01:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That would be so scary. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and still waiting for my next ultra sound, would definitely flip out if I found out I was having more that one little bub.
I guess all you can do is try and relax and calm down, you don't know for sure, and even if it is, I'm sure you'll have people around you to support you with this.
No matter how many babies you have, i'm sure once they're there, you will love them so much you wouldn't have it any other way.
Just think about the positive aspects... that's all you can really do at this time.
Goodluck hun xx
2006-09-11 01:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me Sweety,Skrew your boyfriend,Whats important Now is keeping you Stress free and Getting this or these Gorgeous Babys Born Healthy and keeping you Healthy,If your boy friend Does not want This child then stay away from him,Remember you are the most important person in this World and you need to take care of yourself so you can take care of baby or Babys,listen I have to 13 months apart and it will be more children that love you!Remember a childs love is forever, A Man,s unfortunatly may not Be!YOur boyfriend sounds self centered and immerchore,after the babys are born and you start getting your figure back[ and self astem,you,ll probably tell himm to take a Hike once you see how he does not love your Babys like you!Listen,from a other was HIGH RISK PREGANCY Mother,Take Care OF NUMBER One and thats YOU!LoVE HOLLYWOOD
2006-09-11 01:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a warm bath and thinking about you for a little while. You need to calm down for that baby inside you. I know it is cliche, but God will never give you more than you can handle. You may want to pull out your hair, but know that you will handle it. What is done is done. It might make you feel better to call the hospital to see if they have had any cancellations, or get on a cancellation list. Maybe they can squeeze you in sooner. Talk to you doctor. Maybe he can find a way to get you in sooner.
2006-09-11 11:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath and relax!! The most important thing for you to do right now is take good care of yourself for the sake of your baby or babies. Don't stress out about this (I know, it's easy for me to say) wait for your next ultrasound. You must remember to try and stay calm and take care of yourself and get some rest! Let the ultrasound reveal what's what.
Take Care
2006-09-11 01:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don;t need to be highly stressed at this stage in your pregnacy, if there are two heartbeats there is not much you can do about it unless you abort both and unless there is a good reason for abortion you shouldn't have one. Sometimes they can be wrong and I wouldn't tell your boyfriend (ex) unless they are definatley sure..I would guess by the way he is reacting to the one pregnacy he isn't worth having around. You will be fine.
2006-09-11 01:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying, yes this could be wrong. They may have heard your heartbeat with the babies. Just calm down. Dont tell him until the facts are true.
2006-09-11 01:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to stress baby. calm down. im sure your not homeless. buy what is necessary. do a registry. You are gonna be okay.
2006-09-11 01:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by SCHANEEKQUEAH GOTTI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax hunie i doubt he will leave u just cos its another baby, i would do anything to have my lil baby right now, just be greatful!!! i lost mine at 3 mons :(
2006-09-11 01:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you better relax. Would you feel better if you miscarried right now? Please settle down. There are always options. Just take everything step by step.
2006-09-11 00:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋