I love this guy and I know he loves me too much. The problem is that I have previous marriage. Can I get married under Muslim law if I were a Christian & with previous marriage? I also have a child. I feel he does not deserve me because the problem is on my part. And besides I don’t know if his family will accept me and my status although they know a lil bit of me. Im thinking of leaving him and go back to my country but I just cant. And he seems to feel it that for the past weeks he’d been telling me constantly not to leave him. He has so many plans for us and also for my son. We are both in Dubai and is planning to go to Egypt next year to tell his family about our plan.
2006-09-11 00:22:04 · 8 answers · asked by Gracia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To all who give their ideas and concern, I thank you for giving some sort of advises. I just dont know what to do. I love him and I know and feel that he is so true to me. Despite our differences I know God will make a way.
2006-09-11 01:26:13 · update #1
You would have to check with Muslim religious leader on whether this is permissible. My thoughts are that u wld probably have to convert. I am not sure why his family would make a big deal out of this. So, u have a kid - big deal. If he's OK with it, it doesnt matter what they think,.
2006-09-11 00:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an Egyptian and Muslim too.
if u r a christian or Jew u can marry a Muslim man with no problem at all.
so many Egyptians r married to women from other religions and live here very happy and safely.
the point isn't over ur man religion or his nationality, the point must be in ur choice.
is ur man a good kind beloved person or not ??
this is the question whatever who is he.
2006-09-11 07:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by dr_merobedro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever the law in your country... things change now, so he said that didn't want you to leave him and have so many plans for you and your son.... wow, he didn't care what your past and really looking at now and future with you and your son.
I think you should go for it and try to get help if you can to make you become a better person smiling. If he don't care what his family think of you and then great.. if he did then he won't be asking you not to leave him. smiling.
Talk to him and find out what kind of future and tell him that you needed help to fix it before married.. if he willing to do that for you cool. if not then not worth to married him then.
Wish you luck.
2006-09-11 08:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI!
y do u think it's a big deal. look u can certainly get married to a muslim under muslims law. but u can't change the family name of ur child,coz he already has a family name (according to his father).in Islam when u adobt a child for exanmple u can't relate the child to u,coz ur not he's mom.but any other thing isn't hard.
it's not complicated.
good luck.
2006-09-11 07:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under Islamic rules, if you're a Christian woman, you can marry a Muslim man regardless of your previous marriage(s).
2006-09-11 07:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u and is positive for marriage then u should get married
muslim law alllow other caste ppl 2 get married with a muslim
2006-09-11 07:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could get married if you converted your religion. And if there willing to accept you and your son then you should feel lucky to of found someone like that.
2006-09-11 07:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem for that love is stonger than everything step by step you will understand him and can you become muslim same him .
2006-09-11 07:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Hussain N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋