i started uni this year and i don't have many close friends at all..seems like everyone at uni already haf frens & not interested in makin more..i used to have heaps at high school but we all kinda lost touch & some just moved on..and i guess it was partly my fault too..i deliberately didnt keep in touch with most..cos i thought i could find new friends easily but its harder than i thought. i haf low self esteem but at the same time i think im better than everyone else..not better as in im cocky, i don't quite know..its hard to explain.i have suicidal thoughts jus about everyday..jus flying thoughts..'i wish i was dead then i wouldn't haf to deal with this'..etc. i use to cut myself..but i stopped cos i hate the scars it leaves cos i hate gettin questioned about it. I just think that i shouldn't be dealin wif this 'teenage-low-self-esteem-crap' anymore..im turning 24 for god sakes. I hang out wif my boyfren mainly.my few existin frens all seem so fake. feel really alone :(
2006-09-11 00:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by Khandra J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well i am 25 & felt the same way till 3 months before.. but then it is never too late... pick your phone or Join www.orkut .com or do any way to communicate with people... theyc an be old... theyc an be new... find why relationship with new friends is hollow.... work on it & i know u have the guts to be the centre of evrything.... If you once were u can be once again... it is just the matter of your will how much u want....
Remember Clap sounds from 2 hands... If youwant true friendship you will have to give the same first....
Cheers!!!
2006-09-11 00:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ashish Samadhia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call an old friend it's not too late. the thoughts of suicide however flrrting they may be are cause for concern though. especially with the cutting episodes. you should really speak to a professional about that. you will also be able to work through your low self esteem issues. please don't hurt yourself anymore. god luck to you.
2006-09-11 07:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late to pick up the phone and call a long lost friend.
And talk to somebody about the cutting.
2006-09-11 07:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us feel that way when we start a new school. In a month you will have made more friends an you will be happier. Please dont cut yourself you need help seek a professional.
2006-09-11 07:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by fayem7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋