My best friend has just found out that she is pregnant aafter leaaving her boyfrind. she lives bout 200 miles away and i want to be there for her and show i'll support her but it's hard from so far away. can anyone offer any advice?
2006-09-11 00:00:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ask her if she could move closer to you or maybe you could move closer to her
2006-09-11 00:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by M~Lyna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I'd go and stay there for a bit, even just for a weekend and play it by ear. Go and look after her for a few days or so, get to really talk to her about what she wants. She'd really appreciate it.
She may well want to come and stay with you for a bit or vice versa, but even if not, at least she'll know you're there for her on the end of a phone/email/text.
I was in the same situation but i ended up going back to my bf, which was a huge mistake. My best friend had moved 150 miles away and was too busy for me, it would've been great if she had come to see me
Dependant on what she wants depends on how much or what you can do, don't judge her (which doesn't sound like you would), just be there.
Good luck to both of you!
2006-09-11 02:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by keiraebony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to take some time out to visit her for a short while, encourage her to got out while she is early on in the pregnancy as it will be hell once the baby is born, help her meet new people and encourage her to attend the anti natal groups where there will be people in the same group this will help her build a support network. I am still in contact with all the people I went to anti natal with and it's great if you need a baby sitter or a shoulder to cry on as there will always be someone about. Make sure you can get to see her every other month especially when the baby is born as someone without children can make you feel more normal sometimes baby talk can make you crazy, it's nice to be able to talk about other stuff.
Ring her as much as possible without breaking the bank. send her a surprise if you feel she's a little low, a bunch of flowers, some nick knack that will have meaning to the two of you, just make sure she doesn't feel abandoned
2006-09-11 00:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by derewyn c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty much in the same position with my best friend too. Unfortunately, for her she's not sure whether to keep the baby as a result of her relationship breaking up and it's so difficult to physically be with her to help. However, I do know just by speaking or even texting helps alleviate some of the loneliness and if anything they need to muster their own strength to get through the situation and by offering words of advice, support or just listening is worth more than the price of gold! Sending the occasionally gift - doesn't have to be expensive can often put a smile on someone's face and more than anything it's always about making sure that you're there in times of need! I wasn't able to physically see my friend but we talk via text, email and phone and in doing so she's working through the situation. Hope it helps!
2006-09-11 00:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by hon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to be there physically for her then perhaps moving in with her would be a good idea. Though you can give her a lot of support even from 200 miles away, through phoning, txting and email and go see her at the weekends or whenever you can.
Hope things work out :)
2006-09-11 00:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry love, but unless you or she moves closer there's not a lot you can do other than offer support by telephone. She will need reassurance (especially as she grows bigger) about keeping her identity, and it would be a great help if you could bone up on pregnancy so you'll know what she's going through. It's after the birth that she'll really need you to be there!
2006-09-11 00:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marion C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant and alone. I ALSO LIVE IN SPAIN AWAY FROM MY FAMILY.
E-mailing and talking on the phone realy do offer comfort, i have a couple of good friends that keep a close watch on me from the uk, and it feels great to no that they are always on the other end of a phone or on the computer, she is lucky to have you and i´m sure she feels it. as for moving thats a big change you arre willing to make, i think you should talk to her, if she feels alone she may already be thinking of moving herself, if she does not want to move, like me then she must be feeling strong enough to go it alone it would be unfair on you to just drop your life because she has stuff going on in hers.
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2016-12-18 08:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you let her know that you are there for her, and when youve got spare time go visit her, whether you can or not take her a bunch of flowers, if you cant afford to buy them just pick some out of your garden. offer to either go stay with her as the time nears or let her come stay with you. even send her a letter letting her know how you feel could be good
2006-09-11 00:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by trandru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on and visit her.I would be glad if I went with you.Beccause,i would like to advise her not to abort the baby.Ask permission from your parents and goor you can say you are going to visit a friend of yours.I stay in Ghana and I can't come along with you.
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2006-09-11 00:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Stevo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Train fares aren't that expensive these days and if you are prepared to book in advance you could try www.firstminutefares.co.uk they have some fantastic rates.
Other than that just staying in touch should help a lot.
2006-09-11 02:35:04 · answer #11 · answered by morgaenwyld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋