Okay. I told my friend what I really thought about her (not that nice thoughts, though) and now she won't speak to me. What should I do???
2006-09-10 23:47:56 · 16 answers · asked by LAVELLE! :] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best you can do, if you want to keep your friend, is offer a sincere apology and hope for the best.
2006-09-10 23:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is what you thought about her the truth? Did you say it in a nice way? Sometimes we say things to our friends that are the truth, and no matter how nice we say it, it's taken badly. The truth hurts, as that old saying goes. Maybe you should tell your friend you're sorry for your presentation of what you think of her, even if you think there's nothing to be sorry about. You know, it's always hard to take. Then tell her that sometimes you think those things, yes, but also empathize what a great friend she is and how much you value your friendship with her. And lastly, invite her to voice any feelings that she has about you. Beg her to. Tell her you want to hear. She may tell you a thing or two that you never knew before and you might be able to go on from there. If not...the world is full of people who need a friend.
2006-09-11 06:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are as sharp as swords. Once spoken you can never take it back. In the future think before you speak. Give her some time and then apologize to her. Think about how you would feel if some one said that to you. You would be hurt and upset too.
2006-09-11 06:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wasen't a good friend to begin with. I wouldn't appologize to her because you have your reasons for telling her what you thought of her. You should ALWAYS be honest & not sugar coat things. If you hold them in & not tell her i don't think that that's good. I don't brown nose anyone & you shouldn't either!
2006-09-11 06:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spoke the truth and were malicious about it then you should apologize. If you spoke the truth because she asked then you don't have to feel bad. Just find another friend.
2006-09-11 06:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is the truth than so be it, If she asked your opinion. Tell her you were only trying to help her . aSK HER WHAT SHE REALLY THINKS OF YOU !!!!!!!! GIVE HER ACHANCE TO AIR HER OPINION AND THEN YOU WILL KNOW HOW SHE FEELS AND HOW TO TALK TOHER
2006-09-11 06:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a friend that you actually like.
2006-09-11 06:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry and that you wanna be friends with her again!
2006-09-11 06:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
apologize straight away even buy her a present to show her how sorry you are
2006-09-11 06:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Joanne L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
apologize sincerely..do somthing to reach her and make you trust again
2006-09-11 07:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by simplegal170905 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋