I had a brief relationship with a guy 10 years younger than me, it didnt work out as i saw him as more of a friend than a lover. I didnt have any romantic feelings towards him. I finished with him cos i was interested in someone else. We've remained friends although he often tells me he still likes me. The weekend he text me to tell me he'd got a crush on someone and wouldnt say who, i beleive its me!!
I see him regularly and we go to pub once a week to karaoke.
How can i stop him being obsessed with me?
Am i leading him on by still being friends with him??
2006-09-10 23:37:54 · 15 answers · asked by Mizz Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make a break.
Either (1) get a man or make one up...talk about him all the time; (2) physically take a break ...a holiday? or just dont go to the karaoke for a couple of week...
Another way could be to say you are pleased for him as you were worried that he wasnt getting over you & you'd hate to lose his friendship
2006-09-10 23:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't got a boyfriend i suggest next time you go out with this fella to the pub or whatever make up a new boyfriend say you met someone and your crazy about them + the sex is great bla bla that should give you at least a few weeks.
2006-09-11 01:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say stay away from him for a while. Take a brake. It could be that you are just plane friendly with him but he interprets it the wrong why! Just make it clear to him that you only want friendship and then disappear for a while. Hopefully he would then get the message! Good Luck!
2006-09-10 23:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are leading him on. Starting with the brief relationship you had with him. Remember you've got 10 yrs more maturity on him. Or at least should have.
2006-09-10 23:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by frank s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you still wanna be friends with him but thats it you dont want anything else from this man x x
2006-09-11 00:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be frank with him if you really think that he should not anymore express any feelings for you. but how sure are you that its you? he may just be leading you on and remember, assumption is the greatest mistake a person can make.
2006-09-10 23:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by sunntonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he still likes you, maybe the crush is someone else. just make sure by asking him.if he still does like you, tell him honestly how you feel towards him.
2006-09-11 00:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by mee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want him to leave you alone then just meet him with some one else someone that you think that is perfect for him in any way then when he found his perfect macth he wont bother you anymore
2006-09-11 00:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by ili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure...sounds like you might actually just be being a bot bit for your boots....most women would be falttered a chap 10 yrs wounger would fancy them anyway
2006-09-10 23:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nottingham man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know its you ? it might be someone else mabe he finally woke up and realises you two are friends and found someone else would that bother you ? i think you might be jealous but dont realise it i mean no offence just bein honest
2006-09-10 23:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋