i have this guy,we had sex,we talk about our ralationship....we both want to have our relationship last,its just that we dont have any commitment, at all.we both happy we are together....im falling in love with him and he too....is it wrong if i will say to him im falling in love with him???
2006-09-10 23:27:28 · 25 answers · asked by gwyn_41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you mean it, it's not wrong.
Some men may sometimes find it "rushing things", and overall unpleasant, but a lot of them, the serious and good ones, like it.
If you are shy to say it, though, you may use other means of communication - like learning his favourite meals and preparing them for him; making small but really special gestures for him... in other words, making him feel loved and special, and tempting him to say the words first... :)
The thing is, when you really really love somebody, you cannot help telling them so. If you're wondering whether to tell him, wait a bit. Neither of you is in any hurry, neither of you has to choose - taking it slow makes things last. (Quick affection can last too, but forcing things that seem uncomfortable is a recipe for tearing up something).
2006-09-10 23:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt wrong at all BUT if he doesnt feel ant commitment then you might want to wait only because i will tell you what happened to me i have the perfect man we do everything have great sex too but as far as the wy we feel we never say so one day i told him i love you and he became real distant to me i am not saying that will happen to you but just go slow so you wont get hurt i am the type of person that when i fall in love i want to yell it from the top of the roof tops so i know what you are saying i hope you get it all worked out
2006-09-10 23:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't at all. You can love someone you find it irresistible mustn't matter who does not like or not. It should not fairly have an effect on their life. You can't decide upon who you find it irresistible simply occurs. If you happen to love a person and a girl than that is your choice and that i fully help that.
2016-08-09 14:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not in any respect. You can love any individual you love it can not topic who does not like or no longer. It can not quite have an effect on their existence. You can't decide upon who you find it irresistible simply occurs. If you're keen on a person and a lady than that is your option and I absolutely aid that.
2016-08-21 07:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is not wrong. try to be yourself and not get overwhelmed by the feeling.
take a moment, a long walk at sunset or sth, and start a conversation about how both of your lives has changed since you know each other. observe his reactions, if he is enthusiastic about that conversation and tells you that he cherished you and loves you, than it is safe to say whatever you want, but if he is evasive and distant, than just end the conversation in a meditative manner - "oh, was just a thought in my mind ..."
2006-09-10 23:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by d_ruxandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's quite a difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you".
First be sure about what is that you feel and then I guess if you feel like saying anything, go ahead and say it.
Personally, I rarely say things, prefer to show with my actions.
2006-09-10 23:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really falling in love with him or was the sex just good.If you are really in love with him tell him. The sooner you tell him the better it will be for your relationship.
2006-09-10 23:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing beats being honest. i, for one would appreciate honesty. now depending on the male friend, if the feeling is mutual or if he believes that the feeling is not mutual, he should also be frank about it all. but would it not be awkward if you do say so but he does not feel the same way? ask yourself that. but theres no point in hiding your feelings.
2006-09-10 23:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by sunntonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found no problem in being ****** over and over by this man,why are you making such a fuss about saying"I love you"
2006-09-10 23:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly yes a man is very weak when it comes to a qeustion like that u will scare him off rather wait until he says it to u, than u can say it to him as much as u like, good luck sweety!
2006-09-10 23:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋