Why would a girl prefers a boy who always teases her, who are lazy, noisy, not disciplined, mischievous and law-breakers, compared to a dilligent, smart, kind boy who really likes her, cares for her, offers his help for her, and wanting to protect her? Would this ever happen?
2006-09-10 23:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by paramount 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
like duh!!! if the gal choses the disciplined guy, u can safely conclude that the gal doesnt have a taste for the good life...n since ur pretty young...u sound young anyways...i think that's what goes with ur query. i wouldve chosen the teaser anyway!!! that's what's happening with me rite now...tho this teaser dude is VERY cute, n...that's it. he's just cute n he's got muscle. but i love him!!! n law breakers...gals dis law breakers, baby...
tho if this diligent guy likes her it is really up to whether:-
1. he's cute or not
2. she likes him at all or not
the rest...ya gotta watch, dude, gals aint nothing u can understand!!!
2006-09-10 23:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, not all girls/women are like this and it really depends on their preferences. Girls or women who like this kind of guys are probably wanting the "challenge" or conquest and somehow think that they can "tame" them and this makes it seem more exciting, even though their reasons are illogical. Some women look upon the "good" guy as boring, unexciting and no challenge at all.
Personally, I never liked these "bad boys" type of guys, even in my teens because they're either really insecure and just hiding behind their bad boy image or they're too full of themselves. To me the shy and quiet type was more interesting and mysterious. My husband is the "nice guy" variety and he's simply the best.
2006-09-11 06:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see it this way... women are prone to living vicariously through their men, and tend to take on their traits after a while. If a woman wants an obnoxious jerk... deep down, she is as well, and in time, this trait will emerge, as she enjoys his company (and in disappointment, will hop from one obnoxious guy to the next, never realizing why they don't make her happy). If she wants a kind and gentle man, she is also, deep down, kind and gentle.
You sound quite young, and at your age, with girls, they are more attracted to physical appearance and mutual interests (aka "a hot guy who's fun to hang around with"), rather than what's in the heart.
The fact that you are smart might be a put-off, as well. If you don't... 'announce it to the world'... that you are smart, but rather, slowly reveal it, you will be more attractive. Guys who initially portray themselves as being intelligent are more likely to be labelled "geek" in a girl's eyes, and would be immediately rejected... whereas a slow revealing of intelligence would be of interest to a girl... as if to say, "well, if he knows such-and-such... I'm curious as to just how much he knows...".
The older you get, you'll find more women who's taken a more mature-minded interest in guys, as the days of vicarious rebellion and "a good body is better than a good mind and heart" have passed.
2006-09-11 06:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by seraphim_pwns_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls go through these fazes! Hell I went through them but someday the girl just wakes up and they decide I don't want a bad boy! I want I man that knows what he wants out of life! A man that will treat her with respect and and you know at least pay for his own coffee. A man that does not only want sex but wants to hold her for a while as well!! That's what happened to me! So don't worry who ever this girl is she will one day wake up and regret the day she did not recognize you!
2006-09-11 06:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just doesn't seem to register in many girl's brains that those exciting wild guys are more likely as husbands to come home drunk in the middle of the night and slap her around
2006-09-11 06:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by karkondrite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls always want the bad boys! It's just a thing
2006-09-11 06:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by tory w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not girls are l;ike that.........some girld are looking for someone who is tru and very reponsible...maybe that girl you've ssen was having a bad experience before.......maybe she was hurt in the past
2006-09-11 06:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by gwyn_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, because you cannot choose the one you love.
2006-09-11 06:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋