I am currently dating a girl that I am happy with, we have now gone official. I know I can be happy with her, but another girl has expressed her interest in me & I dont want to hurt the girl I am with. I dont know what to do because I like both. Please any advice & I am not a sleaze bag I just am a young confused guy.
2006-09-10 22:58:39 · 21 answers · asked by richardwales79 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never break your promises and think about how you would feel if a woman cheated on you.
2006-09-10 23:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by solo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no passion to any of this. You sound like you are trying to choose which kind of sandwich to have for lunch, rather than a potential life partner.
I say leave both girls and take some time for yourself. When the right person comes along, you will know because it will feel so much more exciting than what you are feeling now.
2006-09-11 06:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the fact that you're even asking this question indicates you prefer the second girl and would possibly prefer to be with her. Its pretty rotton on the first lady though, after ye have just gone "official". Get your priorities straightened out - make a decision and stick to it - dont lead them both on or even contemplate cheating.
2006-09-11 06:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this other girl hadn't asked you out would it even have crossed your mind to ever ask her out? Just because she's asked you out doesn't mean you have to say yes! It's likely that you'll get other offers whilst you're going out with your current girlfriend. You need to decide whether its a relationship you want or if you want to enjoy being a young, free and single guy!!!
2006-09-11 10:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by sarahlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one. I would just tell the girl about the other girl and tell her maybe yall shouldn't have made it official yet. It really depends on how old u r. Cause that will piss her off! Just talk to the other girl, Don't cheat and see who you have more of a connection with!
2006-09-11 06:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by tory w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
erm well this has happened to me too. not dating to girls but 2 lads wel i also expressed feelings for some1 while they were with someone but stay with the girl you are with because eventho u'll be wondering 'what if you had gone out with the other girl' you'll be a better person for staying faithful to the girl you are with don't mess them both about and good look hope you make the right descision. :-)
2006-09-11 06:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by patrick-the-leprecon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is is a hard question. There is no cut and dry answer that I can give you. The best advice I can give you is to follow your heart. Whatever you decide to do, make sure that you are honest with both of these girls.
2006-09-11 06:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you have gone official so keep it that way and show what a decent bloke you are! However, if you are thinking about the other one whilst you are with your girl, maybe she isnt the one for you!
2006-09-11 06:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you give up someone that your happy with right now for someone that you might not be happy with and if you were in the first girls shoes how would it make you feel think before you do something that you may not like done to you,good luck.
2006-09-11 06:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by mossey2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are happy with the girl you're with, there's no reason u should break her heart for someone u probably hardly even know.
2006-09-11 06:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself this question. What happens if you chose this other woman? will your regret throwing something special away? esepcially if shes not all whats cracked up to be? Obviously the woman your with now really wants to be with you, so you must have something special going on, be careful.
2006-09-11 06:02:39 · answer #11 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋