2006-09-10 22:27:13 · 31 answers · asked by miss.frosty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not impossible. People have been doing that for hundreds of thousands of years.
Consider a more difficult love relationship:
A gay guy/woman being married to a hetero wife/hubby that theyre really not attracted to just to conform to 'society'. Its more difficult to change such a sexual preference than adjust to a new religion or culture or race or age gap.
Just an observation.
Different cultures is tough but if each person realizes that a lot of misunderstanding will occur and that 'understanding' will develope with time spent together. Each must be willing to bend and compromise.
Religion is a toughy. If both are steadfast in their beliefs...it's probably best to discuss this a lot before marriage.
The less 'religious' person should conform to the other if asked for obvious reason. It's important and personal to the one who is very religious and would bring you closer to him/her.
2006-09-10 22:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem unless you (both) allow it to become one. Your relationship is based on love and trust. You will have to compromise on many things and religion will be only the first of many. What about food? Holidays? Etc.
You love him so race is not a problem. It may be a problem for your friends and family, but they aren't the one dating him. Put them in their place, if necessary.
Don't let the pinheads run YOUR love life. Keep an open mind, compromise, communicate and have a wonderful life!
Good luck!
2006-09-11 05:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Race shouldn't be an issue. You are a human that's the only race you need to stick with. As for religion, what place does each of your religions take in your individual lives?
2006-09-11 05:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by georgestrait66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem. My husband and I are of different religions and races. We have been married for 4 years and have been together for a total of 9 years. Good Luck.
2006-09-11 11:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tell me 1 thing honestly did u think abt d race,caste,religion b4 getting in d relationship what sud matter is that wether u go along well and r dedicated towards each other and wud b able to take in each others responsibility or not i dont see any reason for u thinking abt religion.finally what matters is d love and the bonding b/w u both which'll help u carry on in life not ur religion or race
2006-09-11 06:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by mayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my advise to you.
Forget the religion first if you can. If you can have a relationship with other religion, then it is fine. But, here is the catch, if you continue the the relationship, be prepared for the future. One should gave-up his/her religion. It could be you or him.
But the most terrible is the break-up. Religion will be the reason for the break-up.
It's up to you if you want to be hurt that much or continue happy.
Respect and Communicate!
2006-09-11 05:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by rhanz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Race is no big deal, but religion is the same old problem that has been going on for thousands of years. People make up all kinds of strange superstitions, and then they can't get along with people who believe other superstititons. Both of you need to get a good science education and outgrow religious fairy tales.
2006-09-11 05:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no religion or race. Love is love. And love is born out of respect for people. If you have enough respect in your heart, you will not see what religion or race. If you have stumbling blocks like families or communities in between, you either try to win them over by love. If they are stubborn, obviously they have no respect for other religion and race - you then need to jump over them and move ahead with your love.
2006-09-11 05:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by someone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if ur not the same race but it might be a problem if ur not the same religion as many life decisions are based on a persons religion
also, each one of you might want to convince the other to convert to your religion and then you might end up resenting each other
and you must keep in mind any children you might have together. what religion do u want to follow? what are you gonna tell them wen they ask about god? what holidays are they gonna celebrate????
2006-09-11 05:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by ChEkNa . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have known lots of couple who have the same situaltion and for them religion and race are not the problems. The important things is you both love each other and you respect eah other beliefs.
2006-09-11 06:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by simplegal170905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋