my best friends boyfriend keeps telling me that we should hook up.i kept him on a distance for a month now but he's getting worse.
should i tell her about him?they have been serious for three years now and im not sure if i should say something.i'm not worried about him coming on to me cause i can handle him but if he can flirt with me then he must have girls on the side.
how do i handle this without loosing a best friend?
2006-09-10 22:12:23 · 14 answers · asked by melley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'll bet that if you tell her, she will blame you. Women always seem to believe the men in their lives and not the friends who want them to only be happy.
Good luck
2006-09-10 22:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by aawatson3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that the guy you're talking about is not worth fighting for. If he could ask you to hook up with him the same time he's serious with your girlfriend, what type of guy is he? You might wake up one day, married to him ten years later and find out he's hooking up with you neighbor or something. He's too risky and if you only have one heart to lose why u wanna waste it with him? Guys you can find anytime, bestfriend is priceless.
2006-09-10 22:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by miss.frosty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell her. If it's been 3 years for them it's really going to be hard on her. Get ready to state all details cause he will lie and say u have the hots for him or both of them will say you misunderstood. Really tell her!
2006-09-10 22:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by tory w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her in front of him so that there is no misunderstanding and going back and forth. I would also make sure that he understands that his attention is not wanted and that he should back off. You should have told her as soon as it started, before it got worse.
2006-09-10 22:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess u need to tell him that he should stop his advances and that you can and will never do this to your best friend. Your concern about his flirtations are valid but caution should be taken if you are going to tell her: they may break up entirely.
2006-09-10 22:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by waki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her the truth. If she's your best friend like you think then she'l believe you if not your better off w/o her.
2006-09-10 22:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful... You never know who your BF will belive. Tell the guy to lay off and just try to stay away.
2006-09-10 22:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a best friend and only think about her. you need to tell her.
2006-09-10 22:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Forever Looking 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not your problem so don't make it your problem. Just be there for your best friend when she finds out what he is .
2006-09-10 22:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by short stack 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her the truth .. bcz she is ur best friend .. and if she really love u she'll understand that and love u more
2006-09-10 22:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋