Is this safe? Is it okay to do this without a condom? If he ejaculates inside of me, could this cause problems? Does it hurt if you use a lot of lube?
2006-09-10 20:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by curious_hlwb 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Condoms are a must and go for it, some woman like having sex this way!
2006-09-10 20:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER have anal sex without a condom. Use a condom and lots of lubrication. Go slow. You may have to try different positions to find which way is most comfortable. Also, NEVER switch from anal sex to vaginal sex! There will be fecal matter on the condom and possibly pubic hairs. You could get a serious infection. Wash thoroughly before having vaginal intercourse. I'm all for experimenting as long as it is doesn't hurt anyone and both partners agree.
2006-09-11 04:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by daisy243 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely use a condom and lots of lube. Remember to relax. Have your boyfriend use his fingers and lots of lube at first and then when you are ready to let him penetrate tell him. Do not do this drunk or when you feel you might have to poop! Keep the lines of communication open and if at any time you feel uncomfortable or too much pain tell him to stop.
If you don't use a condom, you are exposing yourself to possible stds. STDs are easier contracted through anal sex because the skin tears easily. You can get HIV, herpes, HPV and other infections this way. Also, if the sperm drips from your butt or he falls out as he's ejaculating you may get sperm on your vulva or in your vagina which could result in an unlikely pregnancy.
2006-09-11 04:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom, most definitely. Also use lube. If you are tense or nervous it will hurt. If you are relaxed it shouldnt. You can always try being on top so that you can control how slow it goes. Make sure to have him be easy at first anyway until you get used to it. If you are curious go for it. If you have any other questions feel free to e-mail me.
2006-09-11 03:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Smart Ranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wanted to comment on something not mentioned.... Once you do this, it will become part of the repetoire. In other words, your bf will assume that it's always OK with you. So, if you don't like it, it could become a problem for you guys.
Personally, if you relax, it doesn't hurt and is mildly enjoyable. However, I can't get my bf to leave me alone about it- he's fixated on it! Be sure that he does not enter you vaginally after "the act" due to transfer of bacteria- I cannot stress this enough as I have known SO many women who have contracted UTIs that way.
2006-09-11 12:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Geeky Girly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex is a mental illness in my opinion. ANY man who would perform anal sex on a woman might just as well stick his penis in a pile of feces.
The anus is an EXIT, not an entrance!
Tell your boyfriend if he's intent on having anal sex, then he should find a sheep, as they are made much like a human in the genital area.
It is known also, that anal sex can cause higher incidence of hemmerhoids, colon cancer, and even on occassion can cause perforation of the rectal wall, which is an life threatening injury. It is neither safe nor meant to be enjoyable.
That is why God made us the in the wonderful way he did.
Think about this, seriously, and then tell him NO!
God Bless and thanks for reading.
2006-09-11 03:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by krazykritik 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
some women like it some dont, I personally dont care much for it.....one thing to be sure of if you do have it dont let him then enter you vaginally, there could be traces of fecal matter still left on his penis & this could cause UTI's or other infection.....try it if youd like but be sure to use lube & try to relax as much as possible that makes it less painfull & make sure he goes slow, you can just ram it in there it will hurt VERY badly and you may not be willing to try it again
2006-09-11 03:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by *♥* ♥* FaeGoddess*♥*♥* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he wants to have anal sex, and you're curious too, try this.
Let him have anal sex first, and then let him tell you how it felt, and you can decide if you want to try it too. But be sure to have him make his partner wear a condom.
2006-09-11 03:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a condom STDs still spread. As far as pleasure factor, it is different for everyone. I prefer not to (although I will on occasion) because its not exactly comfortable :D
2006-09-11 03:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not solicit this. You can have a more enjoyable sex from front
2006-09-11 03:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋