even I did not see any bleeding from her and she is saying that she did not have sex before , how can I know that she was virgin before getting sex with me ?
Thanks in advance for your answers
2006-09-10 20:23:43 · 18 answers · asked by John 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well, if she was she isn't anymore, are you proud of that? Is she wasn't, is it really that important to you? Why does it matter? If it isn't important to the two of you to be virgins when you get married, why should she be one when you get your hands on her? What did you expect to feel? Not everyone bleeds the first time. My first time hurt like hell, but I didn't bleed. My hymen broke during an accident when I was a child.
Again, I have to ask. If she was a virgin you took that from her and she can never get it back. Do you really want to know that you did that? Does it make you feel like more of a "man?" Or are you hoping we'll say she couldn't have been so you won't feel as guilty? If you didn't feel anything, maybe your penis is broken.
2006-09-10 20:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by ACEmomof2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What causes bleeding in a virgin who has sex for the first time is the breaking of the hymen--if her hymen was intact to begin with. The hymen can be broken in several different ways that do NOT mean she has lost her virginity: use of tampons, exercise, injury to the area (like from a bike), etc. In fact, it is MORE likely that a girl will break her hymen in a different activity than in first-time intercourse. If she said she was a virgin, you should believe her. The issue here is trust, and I would be most annoyed with you if I were her and you were suspicious of me. Do NOT voice your suspicions to her. If you do, you'll be in trouble.
2006-09-10 20:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Two Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the Penis is first inserted into the vagina it really hurts. But only for a few Moments, depending on how and how long you have intercourse with a female it should start to feel more comfortable to her. Yes the Vagina loosens up while having intercourse but goes back down to regular size after intercourse kinda when females have babies, its sorta like a rubber band. Theres not really a time when you should stop but you and her both will know when you're both tired and satisfied.
2016-03-27 06:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no way of knowing except to take her word for it. And what difference does it make? Do you win something by getting there first? Were you a virgin for her? How would you know what you would feel? What exactly were you thinking you would feel?
I have more that I am thinking, but ACEmomof2 said it better than I could. I could only add just I more thing.
Grow up.
2006-09-10 20:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little hypocritical to me. You're concerned over if she was a virgin or not? Were you? You said you didn't feel anything...so that means you know what it should feel like? If you were a virgin, you wouldn't have known what to expect either. Unless you were saving yourself, ti shouldn't matter if she was a virgin or not.
2006-09-10 23:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I did it for the first time there was a little pain but did not shed a drop of blood. Its normal to lose one's virginity without pain or the expected mess. Learn to trust your girlfriend. I'm sure you love her virgin or not.
2006-09-10 20:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by daffythecoolestduck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you for violating her and attempting to steal her virginity. I'll stop now in respect of the rules before I say what I want to say to you. I hope her dad comes after you big time. That's what we need more of in this country.
And all the rest of you people answer his stupid question and don't criticize him? You should be ashamed of yourselves, as well. I'd really like to see him thrown into jail.
2006-09-10 20:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the hymen does not break easily... usually for girls it's painful for a coulple of times(correct me if i'm wrong ladies) then after that it's all good..
well anyways it does it really matter if she's a virgin or not? what is important is the love between a man and a woman has for each other
2006-09-10 20:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by jjt168 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bleeding does not mean anything. Perhaps she lost it by doing some sport? Or she has a very elastic hymen? Or she never had one?
Don't blame her, just believe her if you don't have any better reason to miss trust her!!
2006-09-10 20:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt bleed the first time I had sex. How big are you, or should I say small? Virgin...you should have felt something. She could be lying. You must be young..how old?? It doesnt sound like a virgin vagina to me....
2006-09-10 20:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋