my girlfriend recently went off to college.. and her first night their she agreed to stay the night with some guys and dress up slutty.. and ended up going to a frat party and getting drunk.. she lied to me about it at first but her friend ended up telling on her.. so she then admitted parts of it "i had 2 beers" blah blah.. but comes to find out she was hanging out with her chick friend and 2 guys for a long time.. she then later said "too bad he has a g/f.. blah blah
later to the other guy when talking about it.. it seemed wierd to me.. so i called and confirmed all of this.. and he did have a g/f and said she said she had a bf.. but i cant help but feel like this
if your in a relationship
why get drunk and hang out with other guys?
why lie about it?
she said she did it so the roomates wouldnt think she was a loser.. is this legitament?
why do girls want to look slutty around other guys if they have a b/f?
basicly im looking for whats going on here from a nuetral point of view
2006-09-10 20:08:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all she want to have fun and does not care about any one else so move on, and let her find out the hard way that she lost a good person in her life
2006-09-10 21:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, the best thing for you to do is not to make a big deal about anything, just act like you don't give a **** and that you're just as much capable of going out and getting drunk and hanging out with other girls yourself, and that way, she'll be runing back to you. trust me on this one. so act like you don't give a ****, don't call anybody to confirm anything, don't call her, and she's going to start wondering why you havn't been calling and she'll start realizing that she's screwing up, but if she doesn't call you for a while and you thing that she doesn't care about you, then start looking for someone else because its probably over between you two.
2006-09-10 20:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probable she just wanted a good time,,,you only get your school days once so if you feel you have missed out its your fault,so to speak,,don't get mad at her ,she was just using an opportunity to have fun and why not,,being in a relationship does have its rules but you are presumably both young and making this a big deal may not help,,you should both enjoy the experiences that present themselves,don't waste your time worrying.
2006-09-10 20:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. i'll try. get drunk to fit in. once drunk, judgement is way off, lie about it because afraid you'll be mad, yes it's legit (usually). we like to look slutty because we get attention that we crave(maybe not the right kind of attention but any attention is better than none sometimes)
2006-09-10 20:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by momoftrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on...
2006-09-10 20:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋