Do you have a method when you "entice" someone, or do you just go by instinct?

Question

I think the imagination has so much to do with the art of seduction. Tickling the imagination can do wonders before two people even touch. What do you think?

Answer 1

I agree. The brain/mind is the most erogenous zone. I have a philosophy of a person being comprised of a mind, a heart/spirit, and a body. You need to engage all three aspects.

I like to engage the mind first, because that's my forte. My ideas often pique their interest if we already think alike, meaning we are already compatible and apt to be complicit in our actions (and complicity, being partners in crime, is a key to a good relationship). If my ideas are new and revolutionary, then I get the opportunity to teach and share, which gives me the initiative.

Next, I would focus in the emotional or physical, depending on the person. Some people get worried about the intensity of a poet and mistake it for intensity of emotion. Sometimes it is easier to move on to the physical aspect before going too far into emotions.

I may sound fake or like a playa, but I think that engaging the emotional and physical aspects are like performance art. It's not about playing a person like a game, but playing a person like a musical insrument to bring out the happy song in them. What can I say, some people wish life was like a musical, but I actually try to turn it into a musical. The Italians say "Fare une cinema" but I'd say "fare un musical."

I guess my answer is more of a concept than a check list.

Answer 2

I do this (special) thing with my eyes, and when I do, no one can turn away, not even the girls! They are kinda in a trance, sort of hypnotized!

Answer 3

i go by my instinct. if i am wrong so be it. but i am usually right on it.

Answer 4

instinct

Answer 5

when in doubt, I just whip it out

Answer 6

imagine. . .

Answer 7

Don't be into that stuff.