I feel like I am not important to my friends. Why? Because on myspace I see them comment others, and hardly ever comment me. I see them tell so and so how much they mean to them but they never tell me how much I mean to them. These are people I have known for a while. I just don't know what to do. I feel like if so and so compliments someone else and not me also, I feel like I am not good enough either. For example, Steph A is always complimenting Steph S and they were never close back in our middle school days. Steph S tells people how much they mean to her but she never tells me how much I mean to her. I just don't understand it. I don't know what I should do to help ease these feelings. I haven't had any disagreements or problems with anyone. So I don't know why they wouldn't to me. I compliment them and leave comments on there myspace's. I just wish they'd do the same in return. I see them leave comments and compliments to others!! I felt like deleting everyone from myspace and only leaving those who I felt were really my friends and leave the rest to wonder why I deleted them. They know how I feel. I always post blogs of how I feel or whats going on with me. Any advice or suggestions?? Thanks.
2006-09-10 18:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These are REAL life friends, not internet people I wouldnt care about interenet people. These are friends I have known since 7th grade. We're in our 20's now.
2006-09-10 18:52:06 · update #1
I know exactly what you are going through. I have a myspace and i comment all my friends but they never want to comment me back. So now i have learned that they really aren't my true friends. i learned to move on and find better people in my life. now i have these amazing friends who i talk to everyday. so i know ur situation and i wish u the best of luck
2006-09-10 18:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by preciousangel831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that concerned with your myspace comments then you have too much time on your hands! Give me your myspace ID and I will post a comment about how much you mean to me! LOL! I'll even change my name to Steph!
2006-09-10 18:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok Its gonna be alright
they might of gotten bored of you like a realtionship
all you have to do is to just hang out with them alot
and do interesting things to make them want to talk to you
not the other way around.
2006-09-11 12:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Crumbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had some what the same problem. but they would leave comments once in a wile. but oh well. i guess its because my Friends know that i don't care of any thing ( but i do care for my relationship with God). sometimes i tell them that i don't care if i don't have Friend's. so they see me as some one that doesn't care. but i always have new comments/messages every day. OK GOD BLESS!!! i will pray for you so you wont feel so sad. OK?
GOD IS SO AWESOME!!!! Love him with all your hEART
2006-09-10 18:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to notice you from others, you must have the leadership
if you have good judgement, it is more better.
people likes those one who are keeping flirting, joking and laughing
if your face is so serious, others may not interest on u
Just keep yourself uptodate updated with information
Try to discussion with new topics, not bad arguement.
Demonstrate a new thing which may create more friendly environment...
I hope, you will improve yourself to be the active member of them...
2006-09-10 18:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have known them for a long time does not mean they are your friends, and they probably know that.
2006-09-10 18:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would hurt my feelings also,.......I think they are trying totell you something by the way they do/or do not respond to you .....So it sounds like you need to drop out of that group (see if they miss you)
And why not have internet friends......We all need friends.......Perhaps internet friends will appreciate you more....
good luck
2006-09-10 19:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reminds me of this little song.."im a lonely lil petunia in an onion patch, and all i do is cry all day. yes im a lonely lil petunia in an onion patch an all i do is cry all day... or this one "nobody likes me, everybody hates me, so i think ill eat some worms." get the picture? grow up
2006-09-10 18:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose them. If they were your friends they wouldn't want you to feel so badly. Keep the friends you know are real.
2006-09-10 18:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do exactly that dump them if they are a true friend then they will ask to get back on your page if not then you don't need them anyway good luck and do what your gut tells you to do
2006-09-10 18:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋